Ethics to me is not label based. It is the human choice to chose between the dark side of evolution, or the compassionate side. If we accept first that the unfortunate reality is that force and dominance work in evolution, we can chose to avoid that. But if we as a species insist on force instead of debate and use taboos instead of question, we will divide more than cooperate.
The best we can do is agree to bitch, put the bitching on the back burner, put the labels on the back burner, accept ourselves as individuals first, allow the differences, but allow for questioning and bitching, and realize that all of us can chose which side of evolution we want to appeal to.
The best we can do is agree to bitch, put the bitching on the back burner, put the labels on the back burner, accept ourselves as individuals first, allow the differences, but allow for questioning and bitching, and realize that all of us can chose which side of evolution we want to appeal to.