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Confessions of a Professional Mega-Church Drummer (long, sorry)
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RE: Confessions of a Professional Mega-Church Drummer (long, sorry)
You could always not tell anyone. I know lying isn't ideal, but you seem to be carrying around some sin guilt left over from your upbringing. It's not like the rest of your family and friends are gonna get to heaven and suddenly have it be revealed to them that you were lying or keeping something from them. Nobody's getting into heaven. No need to atone.

Unless you plan on gaining something with your outed self, like deconverting some of them. If you feel like you may lose some important relationships with friends or family, you may want to rethink outing yourself. Maybe let it out slowly.

Also getting paid to play drums is cool.

And Welcome
I can't remember where this verse is from, I think it got removed from canon:

"I don't hang around with mostly men because I'm gay. It's because men are better than women. Better trained, better equipped...better. Just better! I'm not gay."

For context, this is the previous verse:

"Hi Jesus" -robvalue
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RE: Confessions of a Professional Mega-Church Drummer (long, sorry) - by Exian - January 11, 2015 at 4:18 am

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