How do I convince a Christian that they are gay

[Entropist]

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Thing is... I started to see things that I found odd. I realized that Kenny's mannerisms and postures were very feminine. He would even tell me time and time again how he thought a male celebrity was attractive.

I'll never forget the night (over a decade ago) that me and my (now ex-) wife decided to break the news to her parents that we were going to get married. Only minutes before we were about to make the announcement, her mother asked me pointblank: "Are you gay?" Apparently I wasn't manly enough in her estimation: reading poetry, listening to classical music and crying at films, and having "effeminate" mannerisms and postures, didn't fit in with her image of "straight male."

Anyway, her mother made a fool of herself that evening (and I, being young and inexperienced, felt embarrassed for her), because we managed that night to still make our announcement-- and yes, her mother was terribly embarrassed. All this because of a very limited definition of her image of a "straight male."

You may be right, you may be wrong, but if Kenny is in a happy relationship with *you* (and you with him) then is there really a problem here?