Being gay is a fetish.

[abaris]

Sure there will be those who will be gay because they choose to do so whether it be for a fetish, to be counter-cultural (piss off mom and dad, etc.), or because they just want to try something new.

That being said, with all the stigma against homosexuality, I am not sure most homosexuals would actually like to be homosexual if they could help it.

Why not talk to one for a change? I mean, just like a human being. Might give you some insights other than what church has drilled into your brain. I mean, don't you even take a breather before typing away? Being homosexual just to piss off mom and dad or to try something new, and then without even a pause to let the contradictory ignorance take hold in the brain cells, claiming that they would change it if they could.