I wasn't put off by "Charlie's" (NHRN) HIV+ status, but he would not consider a relationship (sex was OK) with me since I was HIV-.
Brian was unaware of my feelings towards him when he died, but I was in love with him regardless of his status.
I've never discriminated against men for hetero experience(s) in their past. There are men in ongoing hetero relationships that will only have gay sex with other men who are also in ongoing hetero relationships.
I can't say I've had anyone turn me down for my 12 Stepping, I'd be pretty leery of a relationship with an active alcoholic, but for a casual encounter, it hasn't been a problem. I'd probably avoid drunk married men for casual sex if I was aware of the situation.
Brian was unaware of my feelings towards him when he died, but I was in love with him regardless of his status.
I've never discriminated against men for hetero experience(s) in their past. There are men in ongoing hetero relationships that will only have gay sex with other men who are also in ongoing hetero relationships.
I can't say I've had anyone turn me down for my 12 Stepping, I'd be pretty leery of a relationship with an active alcoholic, but for a casual encounter, it hasn't been a problem. I'd probably avoid drunk married men for casual sex if I was aware of the situation.
The granting of a pardon is an imputation of guilt, and the acceptance a confession of it.
