Do you care about your significant other's sexual past?

[*Deidre*]

Hey, congrats on the atheism as well I don't know if that sounds weird, but I think it's a big deal anyhow.

As to what Paul says above, then yes if they had been abusively sexual, that would bother me. I didn't consider that as part of the question as I read it.

I always include all sides of the equation. lol

Thanks for the congrats. Yes, I came to the rightful conclusion of atheism a few years ago, but over the past 15 months or so, I was dealing with my grandmother's illness, then death...and I thought, hmmm...maybe I 'need' to find god again. Irrational thinking as the byproduct of trauma. I didn't realize that I just needed to give myself to grieve, and once I started processing her death and missing her, etc...then, I naturally gravitated back towards the position of atheism. (with a sprinkling of agnosticism lol) You have been a life long atheist yes? You don't know how fortunate you have been.