Being gay is a fetish.

[abaris]

I am open to the idea that the state legal prohibitions and social justifications against sodomy laws and prohibitions against gay marriage may not be as compelling as once believed. But the hyperbole, false accusations, and vilification of those with opposing views does not produce meaningful discussion of the issues.

Well, aren't you merciful in your - yes - bigotry. Fact is, it doesn't concern you in your personal little bubble of your life, who's loving who and who's marrying whom. Noone forces you to follow suit. You can be on your knees 24/7 if that's your idea of a meaningful life. The whole idea is of people like you keeping their noses out of other people's personal lives and to not push for legislation to make their existence more difficult.