RE: Ask a gay
May 19, 2015 at 9:23 am
(This post was last modified: May 19, 2015 at 9:25 am by Regina.)
(May 18, 2015 at 8:33 pm)Saxmoof Wrote: Yeah that sounds about rightIt's not all men though. I know straight guys, some very masculine, who are comfortable with gays. It's because they're comfortable in their own sexuality.
How could that change though? I can't imagine men not priding themselves on being masculine, seems like something innately male and as old as time
Homophobes are always either gays who haven't accepted themselves yet or straight guys who are not comfortable in their straightness.
It's about attitudes. When public attitudes to gay (and trans) people get better, it should help kill this hypermasculinity culture. It's about not seeing femininity as a bad thing.
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