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Assertiveness that works?
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Assertiveness that works?
In my life I feel like saying "no" puts me at a disadvantage and causes conflict, makes things worse and I am basically better off saying "yes" to anyone except strangers/acquaintances/people on the internet.

I also feel that if others say "no" to me there is nothing I can do about it.

I feel like I've felt this way, since I was 12 years old, I feel like I have never won an argumentative argument, I have only won debates.

I feel that in the real world winning arguments is less about being "right" or "wrong" and more about a social dominance that I don't have and never have.

I feel fucking frustrated.
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Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 4, 2015 at 6:44 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by The Grand Nudger - May 4, 2015 at 8:06 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by John V - May 4, 2015 at 1:55 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 5, 2015 at 12:26 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by The Grand Nudger - May 5, 2015 at 12:33 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 5, 2015 at 12:36 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Rhondazvous - May 5, 2015 at 2:32 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by The Grand Nudger - May 5, 2015 at 12:44 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Aroura - May 5, 2015 at 12:55 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 5, 2015 at 1:04 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by The Grand Nudger - May 5, 2015 at 1:13 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 5, 2015 at 1:15 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by The Grand Nudger - May 5, 2015 at 1:23 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 5, 2015 at 1:25 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by The Grand Nudger - May 5, 2015 at 1:33 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 6, 2015 at 4:11 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Rhondazvous - May 6, 2015 at 11:09 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Faith No More - May 6, 2015 at 11:28 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 6, 2015 at 12:59 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Faith No More - May 6, 2015 at 1:09 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Rhondazvous - May 6, 2015 at 3:18 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by SteelCurtain - May 6, 2015 at 3:52 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Jericho - May 6, 2015 at 7:28 pm
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 7, 2015 at 5:25 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Rhondazvous - May 7, 2015 at 6:26 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Hatshepsut - May 7, 2015 at 6:22 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by Edwardo Piet - May 7, 2015 at 6:32 am
RE: Assertiveness that works? - by The Grand Nudger - May 18, 2015 at 11:15 am

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