(November 17, 2016 at 4:03 pm)Aroura Wrote: Best wishes and thoughts to you CL, I cannot imagine how difficult all of this must have been, and continues to be.
I don't know if you are interested in advice, and if this is too forward, please just ignore it. I think you should talk to your husband about your feelings. Perhaps they will change if you give yourself a little more time to mourn, but you shouldn't feel rushed into a pregnancy you aren't ready for. I don't know how old you are, but women can and do have healthy pregnancies commonly into mid to late 30's nowadays, so unless you are like 38, don't feel rushed. I've known women who have lost babies and then born perfectly healthy ones after, so agree with others on that. But your emotional readiness is very important, too, don't ignore your own feelings on the matter.
Again, best wishes and hugs!
Thank you Aroura.
I'll be 31 in February. So, you're right that it's not too old to start having kids. I guess this whole thing just made me lose confidence in my body's ability to make a baby. I do feel encouraged when I hear stories of women in the 30's and 40's having perfectly healthy babies.
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