(April 21, 2018 at 4:03 pm)Hammy Wrote: Good. You're like me in that regard then. I'd want to know. I want to know everything. Most people wouldn't though once they know what it is lol.
(April 21, 2018 at 3:34 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Lol, I don't *like* it... but that's just what happens when someone repeatedly talk to me like I'm a piece of shit. BennyBoy had this huge fight with me in a thread some time ago where he accused me of being a rape apologist. And then in a separate occassion he went on this rant saying that I'm "insidious" and worse than the devil because I'm a theist who "comes off" as being nice lol. It was out of nowhere, too.
I mean, if the person apologizes or even just starts acting nice, I forgive immediately. But until that happens, they stay on my shit list.
You sound less forgiving than me (although you're still very forgiving) but then many people would think I hold grudges the way I rant at people and rant about them when they're not there
It's not really a matter of resentment or anger for me though. It's me telling them what a twat they are any why they frustrate me lol. I know it's not their fault and it's just them being them. But then it's not mine either because it's just me being me
You don't believe in free will, so I guess it wouldn't make sense for you to hold anyone's bad actions against them.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh
