(June 2, 2018 at 11:59 pm)LadyForCamus Wrote:(June 2, 2018 at 11:37 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: Yes, I understand that. In fact he went on at length and in great detail to make sure that we knew that and he repeats it every chance he gets. But there is more to it. Do you also understand that he's a self pity narcissist and master manipulator?That’s just silly. Hammy is the exact same Hammy now, post-diagnosis, as he was pre-diagnosis, and during our many one on one conversations, he has never described himself as a victim of anything. And believe me, he’s got shit he could use if he wanted to.
Start with the paragraph that begins: "Another way that the narcissist’s ego gets special attention is through the role of being a victim."
https://psychcentral.com/blog/narcissist...f-the-ego/
Did you read it?
Yeah, I had those conversation with him also in the beginning, which he instigated, and he did play the victim card (paraphrase: beginning with I have no friends, will you please be my friend). It's funny how the PM's abruptly ended when I stopped feeding into his narrative.
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.