The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)

[Angrboda]

He called Kimbyrle a cunt too on a mafia game. Kim asked him to not use that word again and he went on his 5 page tirades to excuse himself telling kim had the fault of it, instead of apologizing and moving on. When I told him he was out of line he attacked me to the point of using my quality as staff member to do it. It was not the first time either.

I only saw what he said to Shell a few minutes ago. Honestly if I saw someone calling my wife a bitch and a cunt in real life, that I deserved better, I would need to restart my anger management sessions.

Enabling him and dismissing this solves nothing.

Just to say, as I read it at the time, he didn't call kimbyrle a cunt; he said "implies the COMPLETE OPPOSITE to what you cunting claim it implies". Now on a second reading, and especially in light of what he has said to shell, maybe that's more ambiguous. But at the time, I read it as a misunderstanding rather than a 'gendered slur'... so that's why I felt compelled to speak up about it, but if he had outright called a woman a cunt and a bitch, as he has now, I would not, and will not defend it; it's out of order and his bed to make and lie in. I just did not like to see what I saw as a misunderstanding leading to all this shit, so felt compelled by conscience to speak up about that.

The problem is, you guys are (or were... who knows now) all my friends, so that puts me in a very awkward position and always has. So unless I can mediate... which from long experience I've learnt I can't do in this situation... it's my policy to stay out of politics and not take sides... especially since most of the time, all sides have valid grievances. I know that makes me pretty aloof, but otherwise it would just be endless eggshells and office politics and I don't want any part of that.