(June 3, 2018 at 6:06 am)LadyForCamus Wrote:Quote:I do, also you shouldn’t use his real name. I’m pissed at him, but I I think we should remove that if he didn’t give permission.
Yes, you’re right. That was careless of me. I apologize. Can that be removed? It’s too late for me to edit.
Quote:B Also, it’s his problem if the mere mention of EP, who he had a problem with if I recall correctly because they were both accused of stalking the same member by robvalue and that guy who plays guitar...
Whoa, what?!
And no, Ofc I’m not blaming you for someone else calling you a cunt. I think I’ve made it pretty clear to the community and to him that that was a horrible, derogatory thing to say to you. My point was that he isn’t the only one who stirs the drama pot. I guess I misread your post to him, because it seemed to me you were comparing him to EP. Whether or not that would constitute stirring the pot is an entirely separate issue from his ability to handle discussing the guy, but if you say that’s not what you were doing then I will take you at your word.
Agreed with all this. To him, I said "You csnt say that, that's totally uncalled for and innapropriate", and to the others I say "You know he has autism and a tendency to go off the rails, so don't provoke him."
So to those saying "why should *I* tip toe around him to prevent him from acting out?" I say this again - a person can only control their own actions, not those of anyone else.
But then again, that's just my opinion. If both sides want to continue to perpetuate drama, that's their choice.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh