RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
June 4, 2018 at 11:31 am
(This post was last modified: June 4, 2018 at 11:32 am by Shell B.)
(June 4, 2018 at 11:19 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I don't blame you for him calling you cunt. You didn't deserve it and it was uncalled for, as I've been saying all along. I just think both things are wrong - provocation and name calling.
There's the but. I know you say you think it's wrong. You also think I provoked it. I called him out for making a passive-aggressive comment and then denying it had anything to do with another conversation. I even showed the post to Tibs before I said anything. I was like, "He's definitely bringing up that other conversation, right?" He agreed, so I posted. You're saying I take part of the blame for what he said because you think I provoked it, even if blaming me isn't your intention. You're saying you think everyone else who has had him freak out on them did too. Steel certainly didn't, if his posting history can say anything about his interactions with people. I let what Hammy said slide off my back the second he said it. I laughed and handed my phone to Tibs, who didn't laugh. The "buts" in this thread, and the conflating of being an asshole with being mentally ill are far worse than an off-the-hinges post about how much of a cunt I am. It's like the 30th such post on this forum. Who cares? What you guys are saying goes much more deep and is much more of an actual problem for actual people who are "victims" or have mental illness.