(June 4, 2018 at 12:03 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: You can simply just choose to not say anything. You already know what's gonna happen if you do, so why do it?"
This is a forum. We're literally here to talk. My point is that it shouldn't happen, and no one else should feel like they need to actively ignore him in order to be able to participate in discussions here.
I add the caveat that I know for a fact that I'm a bitchy queen. I say bitchy things to bitchy people. I get into it with people who are abrasive, likely because I can be abrasive. It's like cats honing their claws on your furniture. I get it all out with people who are equally bitchy. I doubt anyone could find an instance of me doing it to a nice person, but my point is that I am not without similar flaws to Hammy. I'm just pretty damn sure I have a large measure more self control. He could benefit from more of it, and it has made me sad in the past that he doesn't make any effort in that department. He really, really needs to work on some things. His friends should keep trying to help him. I've tried as much as I can for someone I'm not close to.