RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
November 9, 2018 at 5:58 pm
(This post was last modified: November 9, 2018 at 6:03 pm by mlmooney89.)
(November 9, 2018 at 5:57 pm)wyzas Wrote:(November 9, 2018 at 11:26 am)mlmooney89 Wrote: There is no way you will EVER know what it is like to have life growing in you only to learn that it died. You can have all the bad things in the world happen to you but it will never be equivalent (not saying worse or better you just will never understand that feeling)
Sorry, but the pity party got old, especially the last one (that went something like "people with babies shouldn't talk about it around me"). While I feel for her, I don't need to hear the fishing for pity. How many times do we have to say "there there"?
I was referring to him saying he understands because he can't and won't ever. He can sympathize but he can't understand.
I was in her position of not being able to conceive for a few years but I can't even fathom losing Charlie when I was 6 months pregnant with her. Once I had her I was out of CL's pain so I don't understand either. I can think about it and I know how I think I would feel but I don't actually know. I did feel guilty for awhile for showing off my daughter around CL and I'm pretty sure she unfollowed me on Facebook but I agree with you on that we can't walk on eggshells forever. My comment wasn't about that, it was 100% about him saying he understands people and still dislikes them as if he understood her problem or that it mattered.
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you."
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you."