RE: The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)
November 13, 2018 at 9:36 pm
(This post was last modified: November 13, 2018 at 9:39 pm by Mystic.)
(November 13, 2018 at 9:34 pm)SteelCurtain Wrote:Well spoken! I think I you deserve a reputation++ from me.(November 9, 2018 at 5:57 pm)wyzas Wrote: Sorry, but the pity party got old, especially the last one (that went something like "people with babies shouldn't talk about it around me"). While I feel for her, I don't need to hear the fishing for pity. How many times do we have to say "there there"?
Fuck every line of this post. I love you brewer, and I hope you didn't mean this how I took it, but fuck every line of this post.
I get emotional just thinking about what she is going through, losing a child she desperately wanted and feeling like a failure as a woman because she can't (as of yet) give her husband a child which is what she wanted more than anything. She expressed the (completely reasonable) feeling that she feels anger and resentment when friends and acquaintances bring up their babies. Who wouldn't? Brewer, exercise some empathy. This is a human with human feelings and human failures. Pity party? Fuck you for that. I think you know that's a bullshit thing to say, and I think you should apologize.
I have always been impressed with Catholic_Lady. The level of vitriol she let roll off her shoulders amazed me. She was a wonderful member of these forums that (I am probably breaking a rule here but fuck it) I happily voted on and nominated to be a moderator multiple times. I am disgusted that her worth is being adjudicated here without her knowledge.