(November 13, 2018 at 11:16 pm)Joods Wrote:(November 13, 2018 at 11:13 pm)vulcanlogician Wrote: I didn't say "okay." I said "not malicious." There is a difference.
You'd think differently if you had lost a child, so yeah, it absolutely was malicious, horrible and uncalled for. By you taking his side, you literally justify his actions.
I've been through something similar with my sister, Joods. The word "malicious" has nothing to do with how hurtful something is. It has everything to do with intentions. I am not taking anyone's side. Nor am I excusing anything. I am making a statement about what I thought wyzas's intentions were. Nothing more. Nothing less.
I'm not justifying anyone's actions, either. In fact, I would rather that wyzas had not even brought it up in this thread. After all this time, I think he should have let it go, or at least done some reflection on the matter.