You make your own way and there's a lot positive that can come of discourse, civil or otherwise. It's a shame I didn't get to know you but, if you have decided to go then best of luck to you.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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