It's good to have you back. I know you're a well-liked member here. It would be a bummer to lose you.
As for the nice thing, it's a nuanced situation. For my part, I'm not against being nice. I'm against being forced to be nice to people who aren't nice, but just don't swear when they're being assholes. That doesn't matter now, as the ship has sailed and we're working behind the scenes to make things easier for both the staff and the members. Lots of good suggestions were made, so there's a lot to go through. Be patient and you may find that we've compromised.
As for the nice thing, it's a nuanced situation. For my part, I'm not against being nice. I'm against being forced to be nice to people who aren't nice, but just don't swear when they're being assholes. That doesn't matter now, as the ship has sailed and we're working behind the scenes to make things easier for both the staff and the members. Lots of good suggestions were made, so there's a lot to go through. Be patient and you may find that we've compromised.