RE: Peanut Gallery Commentary on the Staff Log of Bannings and such like.
August 24, 2016 at 5:24 am
(This post was last modified: August 24, 2016 at 5:25 am by Edwardo Piet.)
You''re not being an asshole, Losty. I don't think you'd even know how to be. You're the most compassionate person I've ever met.
I have a lot of compassion for EP, regardless of his behavior, and I'm not ashamed to say that. I even think I have a lot of similarites to him, I can relate to him somewhat. We can both be overanayltical for instance.
Yes, his behavior was unnaceptable. Yes he can be a dick, so can I, so can we all.
I'm glad he is banned for now, and I hope he learns to behave himself better when he returns.
His post about Ivy was against the rules and unnacceptable, especially so when she's going through hard stuff as it is (By the way, Ivy is one of my greatest friends in the world): I hope he learns his lesson and never does it again. But I still have compassion and empathy for him.
Losty is absolutely right about the diagnosis thing. I sometimes say shit like "I wonder if so and so might have X" diagnosis and I always make it super clear it's just my opinion and I don't really know anything, I've only read about stuff, and I make such speculations about myself too.
But even though it's only given as an opinion sometimes... I think I have learned that yeah, it's rather out of line. I can understand why it bothers you Losty when people jump in with their opinion about diagnoses.
How come Losty is so damn wonderful? She's so fair to everyone.
Kitticorn is magic.
#justsaying
I have a lot of compassion for EP, regardless of his behavior, and I'm not ashamed to say that. I even think I have a lot of similarites to him, I can relate to him somewhat. We can both be overanayltical for instance.
Yes, his behavior was unnaceptable. Yes he can be a dick, so can I, so can we all.
I'm glad he is banned for now, and I hope he learns to behave himself better when he returns.
His post about Ivy was against the rules and unnacceptable, especially so when she's going through hard stuff as it is (By the way, Ivy is one of my greatest friends in the world): I hope he learns his lesson and never does it again. But I still have compassion and empathy for him.
Losty is absolutely right about the diagnosis thing. I sometimes say shit like "I wonder if so and so might have X" diagnosis and I always make it super clear it's just my opinion and I don't really know anything, I've only read about stuff, and I make such speculations about myself too.
But even though it's only given as an opinion sometimes... I think I have learned that yeah, it's rather out of line. I can understand why it bothers you Losty when people jump in with their opinion about diagnoses.
How come Losty is so damn wonderful? She's so fair to everyone.
Kitticorn is magic.
#justsaying