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Peanut Gallery Commentary on the Staff Log of Bannings and such like.
RE: Peanut Gallery Commentary on the Staff Log of Bannings and such like.
(August 19, 2018 at 9:49 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I know. Trust me I didn't intend on going on with it, but seeing his entire person being reduced down to something he said (which he didn't mean) in a drunken, depressive state hurt my heart. Despite how awful that thing was, I don't think it should define him entirely. We've known him for years as a respected member here and decent human and friend. 

I get it, CL, I know your heart is in the right place here.

But this isn't an isolated incident. Ask anyone who's been here and been friends with him for years, this is an escalation of behaviors that have been there all along. He makes awful comments about women and his IRL friends all the time. We had been chalking this up to his alcoholism and loneliness because of the genuinely warm and funny person he was when he wasn't drunk, which was becoming more and more rare.

I think this incident really just opened up a lot of our eyes to what was there all along. We are not defining him by this thing that he said. We are finally realizing that he's been saying shit like this all along, and we're no longer choosing to ignore it.
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RE: Peanut Gallery Commentary on the Staff Log of Bannings and such like. - by SteelCurtain - August 19, 2018 at 10:33 pm

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