Peanut Gallery Commentary on the Staff Log of Bannings and such like.

[Shell B]

Subjecting an abuse victim to further abuse by way of targeting that abuse as a means of re-opening wounds caused by the original violation, is absolutely inexcusable, imo.  (Not sure that sentence is grammatically correct, but oh well.) A grown man knows better, no matter what he’s been through.  Stim is not a victim.  His behavior is predatory and abusive. It’s sad that he has become that, but it is what it is. His actions speak for themselves.

Absofuckinglutely. That anyone continues to protect him after the repeated comments he makes about the value of women, abuse of women, his "cuck" status, how much he hates people that don't touch him, respond to him, coddle him, baffles the mind. To say he doesn't hate women for not fucking him whenever he feels like it is naive. He's told you who he is on dozens of occasions. If you're not listening, there's nothing anyone can do. This isn't some one-off thing that we should forgive him because he can't handle his liquor. This cannot and positively should not be blamed on grief and depression. Quite frankly, I'm really sick of us mentally ill folk being lumped the fuck in with sickos. One again, mental illness is NOT an excuse for bad behavior. It's not even an explanation. Yes, really. It doesn't explain bad behavior. Ever. Sane people do shitty things. Insane people do good things and vice versa. There's no correlation or causation. STOP FUCKING USING MENTAL ILLNESS TO EXPLAIN SHITTY PEOPLE. It stigmatizes the rest of us, and I don't know why I have to keep fucking saying it.