(October 27, 2015 at 10:16 pm)Yeauxleaux Wrote: I think everyone has little preferences (I do like I said earlier) and that's ok.
The key word to me is "preference", to "prefer something" is - "this is what I usually like, but I'm open minded to other stuff". I tend to prefer darker features, but that doesn't mean I find blond hair/blue eyes unattractive by any means.
That's totally different to "I only date Asians" or "I don't date blacks". It's a problem when it becomes exclusionary and you completely write people off based on bullshit stereotypes, before you even talk to them.
I think it depends, some people might just want someone of the same background. I wouldn't attack a minority for wanting to date other people from the same group. An asian immigrant might feel better with another asian immigrant because of similar background - This is true for everybody else.
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