RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
October 27, 2016 at 2:08 pm
(This post was last modified: October 27, 2016 at 2:31 pm by Edwardo Piet.)
This could have been so easy. It could have been Nym calling me an insincere hypocrite [she said it's hard to take either of us, me or EP, seriously (her effectively calling me insincere) after I had said "the difference is that I'm sincere and he's not", and she said it was "pot calling kettle" on my part (her effectively calling me a hypocrite)], me expressing my hurt and her simply being glad that I'd expressed my hurt without her telling me to not "act hurt" when I'm entitled to my hurt.
Sigh. This sadness can't last much more than a day. I hope. I do get sad for at least a day when I feel I've lost a friend. Friends mean a lot to me. The closer the friend the more I get hurt when I feel I have lost their friendship. I am responsible for that hurt that I feel and I'm entitled to express it and I know any true friend would want me to express my emotions honestly.
ETA:
That this:
Was followed by this:
Just sums it up for me.
Sigh. This sadness can't last much more than a day. I hope. I do get sad for at least a day when I feel I've lost a friend. Friends mean a lot to me. The closer the friend the more I get hurt when I feel I have lost their friendship. I am responsible for that hurt that I feel and I'm entitled to express it and I know any true friend would want me to express my emotions honestly.
ETA:
That this:
(October 27, 2016 at 11:47 am)Alasdair Ham Wrote: And I can express my hurt without that meaning I don't want you to comment on. I absolutely do want honesty from you and you're getting honesty back. I am honestly hurt.
Was followed by this:
(October 27, 2016 at 11:54 am)Nymphadora Wrote: People are not going to walk around on eggshells to protect the feelings of others. You're in an adult world. You can either go around acting like a child who was just scolded or you can say "meh" and move on.
Just sums it up for me.