It is, however, my gift to do with as I see fit. And my own circumstances are, indeed, my own. None of this means your situation doesn't distress me, because it does and I truly wish I could be of greater help. Or at least, not say the wrong thing.
At the age of five, Skagra decided emphatically that God did not exist. This revelation tends to make most people in the universe who have it react in one of two ways - with relief or with despair. Only Skagra responded to it by thinking, 'Wait a second. That means there's a situation vacant.'