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Best wishes and thoughts to you CL, I cannot imagine how difficult all of this must have been, and continues to be.

I don't know if you are interested in advice, and if this is too forward, please just ignore it. I think you should talk to your husband about your feelings. Perhaps they will change if you give yourself a little more time to mourn, but you shouldn't feel rushed into a pregnancy you aren't ready for. I don't know how old you are, but women can and do have healthy pregnancies commonly into mid to late 30's nowadays, so unless you are like 38, don't feel rushed. I've known women who have lost babies and then born perfectly healthy ones after, so agree with others on that. But your emotional readiness is very important, too, don't ignore your own feelings on the matter.

Again, best wishes and hugs!
“Eternity is a terrible thought. I mean, where's it going to end?” 
― Tom StoppardRosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead
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Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 2:11 pm
RE: Unloading - by abaris - November 17, 2016 at 2:14 pm
RE: Unloading - by LastPoet - November 17, 2016 at 2:28 pm
RE: Unloading - by vorlon13 - November 17, 2016 at 2:30 pm
RE: Unloading - by brewer - November 17, 2016 at 2:38 pm
RE: Unloading - by downbeatplumb - November 17, 2016 at 2:40 pm
RE: Unloading - by Minimalist - November 17, 2016 at 2:42 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 3:51 pm
RE: Unloading - by SteelCurtain - November 17, 2016 at 2:47 pm
RE: Unloading - by account_inactive - November 17, 2016 at 2:52 pm
RE: Unloading - by Faith No More - November 17, 2016 at 2:59 pm
RE: Unloading - by Edwardo Piet - November 17, 2016 at 3:07 pm
RE: Unloading - by Joods - November 17, 2016 at 3:26 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 3:53 pm
RE: Unloading - by Joods - November 17, 2016 at 10:52 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 10:55 pm
RE: Unloading - by Alex K - November 17, 2016 at 3:29 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 3:41 pm
RE: Unloading - by Minimalist - November 17, 2016 at 3:44 pm
RE: Unloading - by AceBoogie - November 17, 2016 at 4:00 pm
RE: Unloading - by Aroura - November 17, 2016 at 4:03 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 4:09 pm
RE: Unloading - by Fireball - November 17, 2016 at 4:03 pm
RE: Unloading - by c172 - November 17, 2016 at 4:23 pm
RE: Unloading - by Edwardo Piet - November 17, 2016 at 4:28 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 4:34 pm
RE: Unloading - by c172 - November 17, 2016 at 4:39 pm
RE: Unloading - by Doubting Thomas - November 17, 2016 at 4:42 pm
RE: Unloading - by Shell B - November 17, 2016 at 4:47 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 5:04 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 5:09 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 5:59 pm
RE: Unloading - by Doubting Thomas - November 17, 2016 at 5:06 pm
RE: Unloading - by Shell B - November 17, 2016 at 5:13 pm
RE: Unloading - by Shell B - November 17, 2016 at 6:17 pm
RE: Unloading - by Whateverist - November 17, 2016 at 6:19 pm
RE: Unloading - by Minimalist - November 17, 2016 at 6:28 pm
RE: Unloading - by Alex K - November 17, 2016 at 6:37 pm
RE: Unloading - by abaris - November 17, 2016 at 7:15 pm
RE: Unloading - by vorlon13 - November 17, 2016 at 9:04 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 17, 2016 at 9:22 pm
RE: Unloading - by vorlon13 - November 17, 2016 at 9:50 pm
RE: Unloading - by Whateverist - November 17, 2016 at 9:30 pm
RE: Unloading - by Joods - November 18, 2016 at 12:33 am
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 18, 2016 at 12:48 am
RE: Unloading - by Fireball - November 18, 2016 at 1:50 pm
RE: Unloading - by Joods - November 18, 2016 at 2:02 pm
RE: Unloading - by vorlon13 - November 18, 2016 at 2:41 pm
RE: Unloading - by Doubting Thomas - November 18, 2016 at 3:12 pm
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 18, 2016 at 3:14 pm
RE: Unloading - by Fake Messiah - November 19, 2016 at 5:06 am
RE: Unloading - by Catholic_Lady - November 19, 2016 at 8:45 am
RE: Unloading - by brewer - November 19, 2016 at 9:28 am
RE: Unloading - by Fireball - November 20, 2016 at 1:07 pm
RE: Unloading - by Thumpalumpacus - November 20, 2016 at 12:20 am
RE: Unloading - by Crossless1 - November 20, 2016 at 12:25 am

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