Choosing who you are

[Fake Messiah]

I guess at first sight it may seem that trans people may be obsessed with gender, and that normal people generally don't bother much what gender they are. And really, what does it specifically mean to be a man or a woman?

But on the other hand sometimes I meet people that don't look their "official" gender. Like I specifically remember meeting a woman who not only had mustaches and short hair but also had a posture that seemed much more like a man - something that I wasn't aware was a thing between genders - although she was short like women usually are.

And, onlinebiker, if you are against trans people and gender changes (I'm not saying you neccesarily are) would you be comfortable dating a woman I just described? Or even dancing with her? Or would it not seem strange seeing some other guy dancing with that kind of a woman?

Indeed, this reminds me of a curious video where Bill Burr and Lea DeLaria (a butch woman) were at Conan o'Brien. At one point Lea starts taking off her jacket and she's having problems with it, so she complains to Burr what kind of gentleman he is for not helping her with her. Indeed she is so butch that to Burr's mind she doesn't even register as a woman, but as a guy.