(July 22, 2020 at 1:16 pm)Porcupine Wrote: Because of how they are mistreated.
It kinda boils down to this.
Want me to go into detail?
I started hormones all the way back in 2008 and attempted social transition in 2009. It was rough. I'll admit now, I attempted the social part a bit too soon (not to mention the recession at the time didn't help me), but I still would have had to bite that bullet at some point anyway.
I used to be able to find support, somewhere, but when I transitioned a lot of that support dried up. Family support? Gone. Social services? Those were tricky; I would have had to rely on men's social support services and staying in a men's homeless shelter wouldn't have been easy (communal showers aren't your friend when you have the beginning of boobs). It would have been nice to get a job and just take care of myself, but nobody would hire me anymore. I was able to get some support in the trans community but a lot of the people who "helped" me were drama queens themselves and made things worse in a way. Even applying for unemployment or seeking medical care were difficult. Had someone in an ambulance call me "a he/she/it" once and ambulance people are supposed to have empathy.
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"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama
"If you cling to something as the absolute truth and you are caught in it, when the truth comes in person to knock on your door you will refuse to let it in." ~ Siddhartha Gautama