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hello!
#11
RE: hello!
(December 23, 2009 at 1:06 pm)A897 Wrote: Thanks guys!Smile
you know what i have never met any atheist in my country so i dont have any idea what future it holds for me.. i know i will be rejected if i got married in muslim family Sad people dont marry outside their cast let alone in any other religion! i know i'll be pressurized to keep my mouth shut!Angry

It takes a lot of courage to be different where there is so much intolerance.
I hope you do find the right girl who shares your point of view.

I'm wondering how you respond/handle the conversation when you're being 'preeched at'!
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#12
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(December 28, 2009 at 12:26 am)TruthWorthy Wrote: It takes a lot of courage to be different where there is so much intolerance.
I hope you do find the right girl who shares your point of view.

I'm wondering how you respond/handle the conversation when you're being 'preeched at'!

hey im a girl!!Big Grin
so it would be much difficult for me to find a right guy. or should i say my parents find the right guy for me as we are not allowed to have boy friends!Exclamation

and luckily my parents hear me out whatever i say and don't make such a deal about it but i can't tell anyone else about my lack of faith.
Eskimo: "If I did not know about God and sin, would I go to hell?" Priest: "No, not if you did not know." Eskimo: "Then why did you tell me?"
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#13
RE: hello!
(December 23, 2009 at 1:06 pm)A897 Wrote: Thanks guys!Smile
you know what i have never met any atheist in my country so i dont have any idea what future it holds for me.. i know i will be rejected if i got married in muslim family Sad people dont marry outside their cast let alone in any other religion! i know i'll be pressurized to keep my mouth shut!Angry

Well, as atheism isn't a religion: you've got no problem there Wink

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Trustworthy Wrote:I hope you do find the right girl who shares your point of view.
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A897 Wrote:hey im a girl!!
Response: and that should matter why? Tongue

There is no sole 'right' person for anyone... in a population of ~7,000,000,000 personalities: there are bound to be quite a few similarities. Smile Oh, but don't trust the chances that someone other than you will find a good 'match?' for you... the only one who can dictate who you love is yourself.

Which Islamic environment are you from? Smile (edit: Pakistan, ah...)
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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#14
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(December 28, 2009 at 6:15 am)Saerules Wrote:
(December 23, 2009 at 1:06 pm)A897 Wrote: Thanks guys!Smile
you know what i have never met any atheist in my country so i dont have any idea what future it holds for me.. i know i will be rejected if i got married in muslim family Sad people dont marry outside their cast let alone in any other religion! i know i'll be pressurized to keep my mouth shut!Angry

Well, as atheism isn't a religion: you've got no problem there Wink

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Trustworthy Wrote:I hope you do find the right girl who shares your point of view.
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A897 Wrote:hey im a girl!!
Response: and that should matter why? Tongue

There is no sole 'right' person for anyone... in a population of ~7,000,000,000 personalities: there are bound to be quite a few similarities. Smile Oh, but don't trust the chances that someone other than you will find a good 'match?' for you... the only one who can dictate who you love is yourself.

Which Islamic environment are you from? Smile (edit: Pakistan, ah...)

Yup Pakistan but i love my country really much.. well if you live in Pakistan then you'll know that guys can do anything their way but girls are forbidden. like in same family son will be permitted to have a girlfriend but the daughter will be in big trouble if they find out her relations.
And as muslims cannot marry atheist in any way so i know in the end i'll be pressurized to say that im a muslim not an atheist!Angry
Eskimo: "If I did not know about God and sin, would I go to hell?" Priest: "No, not if you did not know." Eskimo: "Then why did you tell me?"
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#15
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A897,
Sorry about the gender mix-up.
So you're subjected to arranged marriage and to proclaim your belief in Islam??
What are going to do about it?!
You should get the hell away from there A897, but you'd have to be sneaky, they mightn't be so permissive of your opposing views while you're planning to leave the place. Only joking, I hope you see the funny side.
Will you end up following what you're told, or will you be a 'thorn in the side'??
Hope you can work out where your life is headed!
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#16
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(December 28, 2009 at 7:38 am)TruthWorthy Wrote: A897,
Sorry about the gender mix-up.
So you're subjected to arranged marriage and to proclaim your belief in Islam??
What are going to do about it?!
You should get the hell away from there A897, but you'd have to be sneaky, they mightn't be so permissive of your opposing views while you're planning to leave the place. Only joking, I hope you see the funny side.
Will you end up following what you're told, or will you be a 'thorn in the side'??
Hope you can work out where your life is headed!

sure why not you arrange for my visa and passport and then i'll shift to your place!Big Grin where do you live afghanistan or iraq?Big Grin
well i have no idea what im going to do! Sad
Eskimo: "If I did not know about God and sin, would I go to hell?" Priest: "No, not if you did not know." Eskimo: "Then why did you tell me?"
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#17
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(December 28, 2009 at 7:38 am)TruthWorthy Wrote: sure why not you arrange for my visa and passport and then i'll shift to your place!Big Grin where do you live afghanistan or iraq?Big Grin
well i have no idea what im going to do! Sad
I live in Australia, and I'd be happy to ship you out here, except my financial situation isn't the best; if you can afford the visa and plane fare, I can accomodate you here, no worries Smile
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#18
RE: hello!
(December 28, 2009 at 8:15 am)TruthWorthy Wrote:
(December 28, 2009 at 7:38 am)TruthWorthy Wrote: sure why not you arrange for my visa and passport and then i'll shift to your place!Big Grin where do you live afghanistan or iraq?Big Grin
well i have no idea what im going to do! Sad
I live in Australia, and I'd be happy to ship you out here, except my financial situation isn't the best; if you can afford the visa and plane fare, I can accomodate you here, no worries Smile
i've got a better idea why don't you land your helicopter on my roof! i'll be ready with my bag!Big Grin

thanx for the offer but i have no serious plans of leaving PakistanSmile
Eskimo: "If I did not know about God and sin, would I go to hell?" Priest: "No, not if you did not know." Eskimo: "Then why did you tell me?"
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(December 28, 2009 at 7:08 am)A897 Wrote: i know in the end i'll be pressurized to say that im a muslim not an atheist!Angry

That has happened to me here in the US a couple of times.
WelcomeSmile
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#20
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(December 28, 2009 at 12:49 pm)binny Wrote: That has happened to me here in the US a couple of times.
WelcomeSmile

this is so unfair! why are these religion obsessed people free to preach stupid stuff and we cant even openly say we'r atheist!Angry
Eskimo: "If I did not know about God and sin, would I go to hell?" Priest: "No, not if you did not know." Eskimo: "Then why did you tell me?"
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