Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...

[Losty]

I think it’s pretty typical teenage behavior to side with the parent that lets them get away with the most shit even if that parent isn’t a good parent. I hope things work out in the end Joods ((hug))

[Joods]

Thanks Losty. My biggest fear with this one is that without proper guidance, unfortunately I see jail time in his future.

[J a c k]

Where’d this come from? Seems dickish to me, unless I missed something.


Anywho, hang in there Lucanus. Hope you feel better soon.

Hi JACK! (Don't say that to you friend Jack at the airport, BTW.) Good to see you posting. I was kind of concerned, young lady. Thought you got deported, or something.

Succubus seems to be a bit testy, these days...and Lucanus really oughta get a reality check. Sorry, Lucanus , you just need to buck it up. I've been so broke that I couldn't even pay attention, sometimes. This bit of "comedy" is brought to you by the FireBall. Take it as you would.

Lol deported  
Just been taking care of family biniz. Is all. I’m trying to catch up around here, but there’s so many threads to read and only two eyeballs.

[The Valkyrie]

Hi JACK! (Don't say that to you friend Jack at the airport, BTW.) Good to see you posting. I was kind of concerned, young lady. Thought you got deported, or something.

Succubus seems to be a bit testy, these days...and Lucanus really oughta get a reality check. Sorry, Lucanus , you just need to buck it up. I've been so broke that I couldn't even pay attention, sometimes. This bit of "comedy" is brought to you by the FireBall. Take it as you would.

Lol deported  
Just been taking care of family biniz. Is all. I’m trying to catch up around here, but there’s so many threads to read and only two eyeballs.

Taking care of family bizniz?

I hope you remembered my suggestions for dealing with the bodies?

[vorlon13]

Well . . .

I've watched your video. Strangely erotic to me, and quite mysterious as to why. Leg hair? No. Chest hair? Not a one. Big beefy muscles? Nerp.

So, what do you have going for you? Well, a thick delicious head of hair, doesn't hurt. And then I noticed in the intro 'back story' part of the video you're portraying a construction foreman, and you are managing a crew of burly construction workers.

Aha!

You're masculine and forceful, but nothing (sorry) to look at. LOL, I subconsciously picked up on that and conferred upon you quite a hit of desirability.

Even at my advanced age, I'm stilling learning about what does, and doesn't, turn me on . . .

[Silver]

Even at my advanced age, I'm stilling learning about what does, and doesn't, turn me on . . .

Indeed.

[Succubus]

Thank you guys, all of you <3

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I suppose it's out of the fucking question you could stop the self pity shit and focus on the real dilemmas in you life rather than the false ones?

Lol that was uncalled for. But you know what, I may be a piece of shit, but at least I'm happy I'm not this much of a piece of shit. Thanks for reminding me

How did someone with such an excellent command of the English language get: "I may be a piece of shit",* from that post? Lets just call it a knee jerk reaction.

Please realise the soothing sounds you hear are just that, well intentioned but utterly worthless cooing noises.

But we love you!

Well ain’t that just fucking sweet. The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

The little mouse was the only respondent to actually address your problem directly with a degree of understanding and a large measure of good advise. Well, apart from this sociopath.

30Mg of Mirtazapine. for six months. Now, you fucking tell me about depression!
 
*I see no one in the interest of fairness picked up on that typo.
They have more pressing work you see. They are mortified that someone somewhere may be making a point they havn't caught up with yet, or can make betterly.



Atheist Forums/Egos are us.

[The Industrial Atheist]

It really sucks being permanently relegated to the bottom 25% in attractiveness at best.

Fuck my life.

[brewer]

It really sucks being permanently relegated to the bottom 25% in attractiveness at best.

Fuck my life.

You need to buy a new mirror or get out more.

[The Industrial Atheist]

It really sucks being permanently relegated to the bottom 25% in attractiveness at best.

Fuck my life.

You need to buy a new mirror or get out more.

I wasn't referring to my physical attractiveness nor my personality.

But thanks.

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Been a rough couple of days here. I'm trying to work through it but I'm unable to. We had this bond that I felt was a strong connection. Strong enough to keep him out of trouble. Strong enough to get him to think about consequences before making bad choices. I was supposed to be that voice of common sense residing in the back of his head that kicked him whenever he was about to do something foolish. But he said I was "not his parent" and said he was "done with me". What does a teen have anything to be done with someone for? I don't understand any of this. And it hurts so bad. I gave him so many chances and thought that two weeks time would have gotten him to see some sense.

He came in here Sunday night and got his stuff out of his room after I had an argument with his dad about taking his stuff to him. I put my foot down and said that if dad was going to let the child run the show, then the child could get his ass over here and get his crap. We aren't a moving company. And he was told to get all of it because I was throwing away what he leaves behind.

His dad told his mother he wasn't allowed back to the house for visits or for anything else. We're going to have to change the locks now.

I'm at a loss because the other two don't give us a problem. We provide them with what they need. And give them what they want most of the time. Attitudes and grades must be in check and I don't think I'm asking too much on that front. I'm not perfect, but I love all of my kids. Including the ones I didn't give birth to.

No kid likes rules, but then again, most kids don't stress us out like he did. He has two biological parents that have been so disconnected from him and here I was, trying to give him what he wasn't getting: an actual parent that cares and wants him to know he's loved. He turned on me quick as shit and now I'm just supposed to forget about the last five years like I never had him as a son?

I've already been dealt enough loss in my life. How much more do I need to be put through before enough is enough?

I think he will likely eventually want that bond back. It may take awhile.