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Angelina leaving Brad
#51
RE: Angelina leaving Brad
(September 23, 2016 at 9:48 pm)Homeless Nutter Wrote: They will NEVER realistically stick to one partner, because they don't have to.

Oh come on, nobody has to, people supposedly go to marriage because they want to.

(September 23, 2016 at 9:48 pm)Homeless Nutter Wrote: And it's not just actors - it seems to be the case with most sexually attractive celebrities.

And ordinary people. I know a lot of marriages that fell apart or are with second spouses or people succumb to live with a cheating spouse and they're not celebs. People are horny or they get bored with each-other. They get bored with their lives, but once we reach Star Trek level of civilization, I mean... I guess there is a lot of pressure on people to get married. If you don't do it you're a failure so people just follow their desire to get married without being sure if they're ready.

(September 23, 2016 at 9:48 pm)Homeless Nutter Wrote: dishonest and stupid, as marriages depicted in their rom-coms.

Yes!! I remember noticing that long ago. I think I was like 13 when I noticed how shallow (or dare I say immature) Hollywood movies are when it comes to marriage, with their "Happily Ever After" endings. It was such a revelation to me at that time Ingmar Bergman's "Summer With Monika" about young lovers that run away and get fed up with each other and then the grand-master himself: R.W. Fassbinder with "Lola", "Chinese Roulette", "Bitter Tears of Petra Von Kant"...

(September 23, 2016 at 9:48 pm)Homeless Nutter Wrote: people who care are just morons.
Maybe it's not that people care so much but it just gives people the opportunity to talk about the marriage, because it's still a taboo. It's not like people are going to talk about it in let's say school or anywhere else. Maybe in some self help books.
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#52
RE: Angelina leaving Brad
Yeah, I don't know why celeb marriages seem to last less than the rest of us. I wonder if one spouse inevitably gets jealous over the others' fame? Here in the Air Force community, divorce seems to be pretty rare. At least for the officers/pilots. I don't know if divorce rate among the enlisted folks are higher or not though.

Personally, I love being married more than anything. My spouse is the absolute best thing about my life and best thing to have ever happened to me. I've always heard it said that marriages are super hard and take a lot of tedious work, etc etc, and I'm just like "What are you talking about?? Marriage is great!" I don't know. Maybe things are supposed to get harder once the kids come?
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#53
RE: Angelina leaving Brad
I've always pictured it harder when the nest empties. Especially with the death of offspring (in situations where it's unreasonable to try and procreate again).
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan
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