Am I loveable?

[deleteduser12345]

Yes, I personally like you, but it varies, naturally. There are people that like me and people that dislike me, that is the case for everyone. 

I stand with Alex on this one, you don't need everyone's confirmation, your source of happiness shouldn't be what people think of you.

[abaris]

I stand with Alex on this one, you don't need everyone's confirmation, your source of happiness shouldn't be what people think of you.

At least not on the internet where you haven't met anyone face to face. And where words often times need explaining, since you can't convey a joking remark, sarcasm or irony in the same way as actually talking to someone.

[Edwardo Piet]

You don't need us for constant confirmation, Alas'. Just be yourself and don't worry, those who like you will like you, you can't please everyone.

Damn, you're right, and this is what MCB said.

Apologies for this drunken thread. It certainly makes me feel loved to hear this stuff though.

I certainly don't need the confirmation but, wow, it sure as hell makes me dislike myself less to hear these nice things said about me.

[Edwardo Piet]

I don't know you in real life. Based on what I see of you on this board, eccentric would be my word of choice.

Oh I'm DEFINITELY that.

Just ask Pocaracas... he's met me in real life and can testify that I'm basically the same

[Edwardo Piet]

I stand with Alex on this one, you don't need everyone's confirmation, your source of happiness shouldn't be what people think of you.

At least not on the internet where you haven't met anyone face to face. And where words often times need explaining, since you can't convey a joking remark, sarcasm or irony in the same way as actually talking to someone.

(My italics & bold for emphasis)

@ the italics:

Not the case with pocaracas... and I hope to meet up with some other AF members too!

@ the bold:

Not the case with Skype voice or video calls

Also emoticons and context and message-based long-term psychological chemistry can help convery that too.

But other than that I agree, hehe.

[brewer]

I don't know. Are you?

[paulpablo]

I answered no, but not that I find you unlovable, just that I don't know you to find you lovable.

its unusual but I agree with abaris on this one that I'd use the word eccentric if I was to describe your posting style on here.

And I'd also say you really don't need a safe space.

[LastPoet]

Is it fucked up that I cried happy tears when I saw the "yes" answer and then felt disappointed and stopped crying when I saw that you merely like having me here?

I seem like an unappercaite cunt i am very very sorry.

I like having you here too.

I'm sorry if I'm rude, inappropriate, impudent, out of line or insulting or rude. Oh I said rude. Can't be bothered to edit it out lol.

I'm just drunk. The fact I seem at least ACCEPTED it not loved or cared for means a lot to me. Better than rejection.

I love AF. It's my safe space.

I NEED my safe space.

I used to also get all mellow and sweet when drunk. Lately, it makes me irate at everything more than my normal self, so I avoid getting drunk.

As long you stay that way, yeah, your loveable.

[Mister Agenda]

You're a'ight

[thesummerqueen]

You're loveable. You should probably not trust your emotions when you're drunk.

I hope you went to bed.