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Hello, and what should I do?
#11
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
Welcome! Here's to fun habits!
God thinks it's fun to confuse primates. Larsen's God!






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#12
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
What should you do??? Not be a one post wonder.

It's not like this is the internet where you can just blow people off. hehehehe
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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#13
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
Quote: What do you think I should and should not do?


Sometimes you have to strip away all the mumbo-jumbo and take a fresh look at the core principles.

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How many mental hoops do you have to jump through to profess belief in such abject nonsense?
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#14
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
Welcome to AF, Ray is a good name
(August 21, 2017 at 11:31 pm)KevinM1 Wrote: "I'm not a troll"
Religious Views: He gay

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Hammy Wrote:and we also have a sheep on our bed underneath as well
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#15
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
Hi and welcome. Smile
Frankly, you sound depressed and with what you've said, your issues go beyond questioning your faith. I have no idea where you are but if you can find some like-minded people - which might be relatively easy to do if you're a student - you might not feel so alone.
As for how you'll behave as an atheist? That depends a lot on your own personality since atheism isn't really a well-defined group with a specified code of conduct.

-Teresa
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#16
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
I would like to thank those who responded and gave me their opinion and advice. It is helpful to know that there are people here who understand what I'm going through Smile I just need to clarify a few things:

I do suffer from depression, I did good for a long time but every once in a while I go through period when it seem my depression is taking hold of me, and this time I don't know if it the result of my struggle with my faith or the other way around, or not related at all. But I know that the doubts I have are real, the questions in my mind are real and valid and can not be blamed on depression.

The other point I would like to clarify is that I'm not married to a person from the opposite sex, I'm a gay man and married to another man, which makes my situation even more complicated. Even though all Christians I know are aware of my marriage and even though some of them believe that homosexual acts are "sinful", we continue to respect each other and even built very close friendships with some of them. But at the end, when it comes to clergy (Roman Catholic) the subject is sensitive and I wonder about what would happen if the current priest at my parish leaves. Will the next one be less open-minded? Will he prevent me from taking communion? And other concerns. Also the internal struggle include questions such as, am I fooling myself? How can I believe in a God that clearly misunderstood the concept of sexual orienation, and treated it in a very careless way in what is supposed to be his word? Am I a hypocrite? If religion was powerful, and the Roman Catholic Church had the power it enjoyed in the past, where would my partner and I be today? Am I missing something? And other conflicting thoughts that make it difficult to reconcile my Christianity with my sexual orientation.

Generally, I'm doing better today and I keep reminding myself that clearly I'm not the first nor the last person tk go through this, and therefore, should not go back to the faith just because I happen to feel sad about leaving it, and rather let the emotions run their course and then go from there. I will be more active here, and I will ask questions, and I will get to know more of you, because I believe interacting with you will clear some misconceptions I built in my head about atheists and agnostics the last four years, which in return will help me a good deal. And one last thing, even though I live in a Western country (won't mention the name now) I come from the Middle East and therefore, I know what some religions can do when they're in position of power in society, and of course, I know what that means to LGBTQ people. And also explains why my English may not be perfect. 😛
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#17
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
Stick around matey ...We've got plenty to say on the issue.
If you do a search for a particular key word, you'll find that nearly all subjects have been done to death... Knock yourself out.

Remember, most atheists here are ex Christians.
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.
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#18
RE: Hello, and what should I do?
(October 7, 2017 at 7:34 am)mh.brewer Wrote: What should you do??? Not be a one post wonder.

It's not like this is the internet where you can just blow people off. hehehehe

I am a one-post wonder as well, so I know the feeling. I joined in 2013, then largely ignored AF until 2016, when I posted that I was "becoming active," as I intended to continue posting regularly. Somehow, that didn't happen. Now I'll simply admit that I may or may not come on regularly, but probably not. Regardless, AF is cool AF.
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I do not ask that you respect religion, but we need to respect the religious, because they are rational humans just like us atheists. I was rational when I was a Christian. I believed because of indoctrination, not lack of intelligence.
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