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what Does it Meam to be InLove?
#21
RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
A sure way to tell if you're in love:  If the object of your affections smells better than anything else in the world, that's love.

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#22
RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
(August 29, 2019 at 9:18 pm)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: A sure way to tell if you're in love:  If the object of your affections smells better than anything else in the world, that's love.

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#23
RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
Sorry Rhonda, the subject has always perplexed me. Probably because it means so many different things to different people and is used in so many different ways that I tend to mentally check out when the word is used.
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#24
RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
I know I love my wife dearly. How else could I eat her cooking for 30 years and tell her how lovely it is ......every .....single.......time.....
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RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
(August 29, 2019 at 9:26 am)Rhondazvous Wrote: Two guys have told me they loved me but weren’t in love with me. Why is it necessary to be in love? What does being in love do for a relationship? Even though these guys claimed they weren’t in love with me, I couldn’t see what was missing in the relationships I had with them.

Did they end the relationship you've had with them??? Maybe that was their excuse out. 

I don't trust a women who claims to be in love with me even after knowing each other well.
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#26
RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
(August 29, 2019 at 9:26 am)Rhondazvous Wrote: Two guys have told me they loved me but weren’t in love with me. Why is it necessary to be in love? What does being in love do for a relationship? Even though these guys claimed they weren’t in love with me, I couldn’t see what was missing in the relationships I had with them.

It's hard to say Rhonda. I don't know if I've ever been in love, at least not in the way that a lot of people describe it. Though I wonder how realistic, or healthy, that concept of love even is.

To me, being "in love" isn't necessary to be in a happy relationship though, depending on what you're expecting the relationship to be. If the expectation is, hey we're going to fuck on a regular basis and, even though I won't admit it, I hate seeing you around other guys... then you'll be more or less satisfied if that's what you get, unless deeper feelings start developing. Or even if your expectation is, hey, we get along, we're sexually compatible and you don't drive me up a fucking wall, let's be together... that's fine too.

But expectations are probably the main thing there.

In a way, I think I've loved every girl I ever met. Every girl I've met had some thing about her, or personality quirk, or something else, that drove me a little crazy.

But the fairy-tale, hot sex and unlimited passion, never getting sick of each other, loving every moment with one another type of love that a lot of people talk about just doesn't seem like a real thing to me. I think there's intense lust, and then there's a deep caring you can have for someone you like to have sex with. If the former and the latter intersect, then great for you, you found that magic, fairy-tale type of love, but you probably hit the jackpot, and the rest of us shouldn't treat that as a realistic expectation.

I think you're a very lucky person if you can have one, lifelong partner and truly be satisfied. Assuming that's what you want, of course. I think most people go through multiple people before they ever decide to settle down. So, who cares Rhonda? On to the next one!

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#27
RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
I've met a lady recently.
I'm being cautious, trying to take it slow.
I keep thinking about her every 15 mins when we're apart and I feel disappointed in myself.
I don't want to be head over heels.
She's rung me twice over something unimportant.
I think she just wants to hear my voice and it's nice to have someone feel that way.
I can totally be myself around her and she's fiery in just the way I like.
Too good to be true. :-)




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#28
RE: what Does it Meam to be InLove?
It basically means people are getting along well with each other and they're having sex. Or something along those lines. Some people blow it up to be more than that, like something supernatural or like fate.


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