(September 27, 2015 at 1:52 pm)Homeless Nutter Wrote: If I found out a gay guy found me un-attractive - well, I'd be absolutely crushed and heart-broken. I always thought, that when I finally admit to myself that no woman will want me - I can give up and just blow dudes... Isn't that how this homo-sexuality thing works?

Um, I detect a distinct lack of enthusiasm.

That's a turn off, I'm sure I would be able to tell in your technique, or rather, your lack thereof.

(September 27, 2015 at 3:12 pm)Losty Wrote: Why would anyone be so cruel as to say they found me repulsive when a simple "I'm not attracted to you" would do? I would assume ulterior motives. People usually don't go out of their way to hurt someone's feelings for no reason.

Theoretically, some of the unenlightened would be relieved to have absolutely no sex appeal to a potential same sex partner.

Most of my male relatives, for instance . .




I'd even bet there are guys out there that would be interested in knowing how to dress and act to further lower their potential appeal.

Oh...so the OP was addressing straight males, got it

And the flip side, if a straight guy is inadvertently doing something that might lead to an uncontrollable rape frenzy he might want to know.

Um, Jeff, quit sweating, show less butt crack and maybe shave those luxuriant arms of yours . . .


(JK)

O_o .

Um yeah, this was the converse to today's earlier necropost topic.

Which I found hysterical.

sorry if I was unclear

(September 27, 2015 at 7:24 pm)vorlon13 Wrote: Um yeah, this was the converse to today's earlier necropost topic.

Which I found hysterical.

sorry if I was unclear

What's unclear to me is whether this advice

"Um, Jeff, quit sweating, show less butt crack and maybe shave those luxuriant arms of yours . . . "

is supposed to help teach Jeff how to be sexier or if it's supposed to teach him what to do so that you won't find him attractive...?

Also, I just noticed the other thread oops.

(September 27, 2015 at 7:14 pm)vorlon13 Wrote:

(September 27, 2015 at 3:12 pm)Losty Wrote: Why would anyone be so cruel as to say they found me repulsive when a simple "I'm not attracted to you" would do? I would assume ulterior motives. People usually don't go out of their way to hurt someone's feelings for no reason.

Theoretically, some of the unenlightened would be relieved to have absolutely no sex appeal to a potential same sex partner.

Most of my male relatives, for instance . .




I'd even bet there are guys out there that would be interested in knowing how to dress and act to further lower their potential appeal.

The thing is, I would imagine that if a man were totally repulsive to gay men, he would likely also be repulsive to straight women.  If you want, you can set up a poll in a new thread with links to pictures of famous actors (with some of them unattractive), and have gay men and straight women rate them (so the poll options would be something like, "I am a gay man and Mr. X is attractive," "I am a gay man and Mr. X is repulsive," "I am a gay man and Mr. X is neither very attractive nor very repulsive," "I am a straight woman and Mr. X is attractive," etc.).  My guess is that if done on a large enough scale (to avoid the results being skewed by outliers), for the most part, the men who are most attractive to gay men would also be attractive to straight women, and the ones most repulsive to gay men would be repulsive to straight women.

Now I am thinking maybe an online search for such a thing might be in order, to see if this has been tested or not.

Slow, messy, bloody revenge...

(September 27, 2015 at 9:17 pm)Beccs Wrote: Slow, messy, bloody revenge...

Well.

That was disquieting.