(April 14, 2016 at 7:41 am)pool the great Wrote:

(April 14, 2016 at 7:38 am)paulpablo Wrote: I agree with a lot of what you're saying but have you thought about how this situation arises?

Yes. But I have a feeling you have another version of the story to tell?

Sorry I clicked on post reply too soon by accident, this is the rest of what I was going to say

In India poverty is much more of a real threat. Social constructs are more important and so is marriage.  The exchange of resources for vagina is way more close to the surface in India than it is say in the UK.
In the UK the attitude is more of you should marry for love or happiness or some other vague reasons.  Not so much the case in India because they want to be sure that their grandchildren won't be living in a heap of shit eating other people's rubbish, so marrying into money is more important.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1xQ-Hp0yzo

Check out this vid.  He's annoyed to find out Karl doesn't have a good education.  He finds out Karl has a five bedroom house in England and instantly suggests where Karl and his daughter could go on a date together, maybe to the movies?

Now if the exchange of resources for access to a vagina isn't in the ho ish behavior category then you will have to explain what is.

Hoish behavior is actually traditional, it's the western woman you pointed out who is the opposite of a ho.   She's having sex for pleasure with no concern over the income or intelligence of the person she's having sex with.

Now I'm not saying that what the western woman is doing is good either.  I agree with you that it can be tragic.  She has sex, the condom splits, she has a baby payed for by tax payers, she gets an STD the treatment is payed for by tax payers.  What happens more in India is like encouraging natural selection to favor intelligent people.  At least that's what I predict the outcome will be in the higher classes of India. They're restricting access to vagina for only people with high income jobs. You can already see in a lot of Indian immigrants that come to the UK they very often have a great work ethic and occupy high intelligence jobs like doctors or lawyers.  This kind of stuff happens in the UK too I think but it's probably more subtle than an arranged marriage.

I don't think the problem is as bad as you think it is though.  I predict the woman in question is probably quite young, her followers are probably young students themselves and how long do you think they will keep up the lifestyle of having a diet based completely on pizza and kebab and having sex with ten men per night?

(April 14, 2016 at 8:05 am)Alex K Wrote: Having finally read the article linked in the OP, I wonder what's wrong with the writer's attitude. Have I accidentally been transported a handful of decades back in time where we shame women for getting all the sex they want, while men get cheered on for doing the same thing? Yawn.

Lol!! Which universe are you living in Alexy??
Men gets cheered for the same thing?? Among fellow Bros? Yeah, sure. By society? Think again. they call studs as toxic masculinity and shame them to be little slaves all the while encouraging women to sleep around till their hearts content.
Think of it like this: woman cheats on husband vs husband cheats on woman,which do you think society will make a bigger deal of?

She cheated on him? Well she was unhappy with the marriage. He didn't make her feel special enough. His fault.

He cheated on him? Misogynistic scum!!!!

Have you not heard of divorce cases where the woman cheats on the man, man apply for divorce, woman work the waters in court and then takes half of what the guy broke his back trying to make?

(April 14, 2016 at 8:16 am)pool the great Wrote: Have you not heard of divorce cases where the woman cheats on the man, man apply for divorce, woman work the waters in court and then takes half of what the guy broke his back trying to make?

Maybe you should provide a random Youtube rant for reference.

Society forcing men to be little slaves? Right... Now you're just regurgitating some nonsense from MRA sites.

But you might be confused here - we're not talking about men having unprotected sex, then splitting and not wanting to support the child

(April 14, 2016 at 8:20 am)Thena323 Wrote:

(April 14, 2016 at 8:16 am)pool the great Wrote: Have you not heard of divorce cases where the woman cheats on the man, man apply for divorce, woman work the waters in court and then takes half of what the guy broke his back trying to make?

Maybe you should provide a random Youtube rant for reference.

[spurious anecdote needed]

(April 14, 2016 at 8:20 am)Thena323 Wrote:

(April 14, 2016 at 8:16 am)pool the great Wrote: Have you not heard of divorce cases where the woman cheats on the man, man apply for divorce, woman work the waters in court and then takes half of what the guy broke his back trying to make?

Maybe you should provide a random Youtube rant for reference.

Maybe you should be talking against objectifying women and then proceed to objectify yourself.

One can't objectify oneself, genius.

(April 14, 2016 at 8:24 am)Alex K Wrote: Society forcing men to be little slaves? Right... Now you're just regurgitating some nonsense from MRA sites.

What you have given me is your opinion, what I have given you is a fact. I can provide source for what I've claimed.

(April 14, 2016 at 8:26 am)Alex K Wrote: One can't objectify oneself, genius.

One can, genius.

That's cool. Anecdotes may be facts, but they are not evidence.