(June 2, 2016 at 10:32 pm)Losty Wrote:

(June 2, 2016 at 10:28 pm)pool the great Wrote: It takes a LOT for a guy to snap. Even with someone like me with anger issues it takes a LOT to truly snap and go full on crazy mode. If he snapped for totally no reason-just like that - then he was probably mentally ill,HIGH level crazy .  
I still don't understand why you or the hospital officials didn't report it.

I was afraid of him pool, he was insane. His abuse slowly worsened over our marriage. It wasn't a sudden snap. I had already lost a late term pregnancy because of his abuse. I brought the situation up only to say that in Georgia they really push shared custody and for the most part I think that's a good thing. Usually, parents should share custody.

But why didn't you report him? Why didn't the hospital officials report him?

(June 2, 2016 at 10:56 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: Don't be a dick, Pool.

My curiosity offends you? That's a first

(June 2, 2016 at 11:12 pm)pool the great Wrote:

(June 2, 2016 at 10:32 pm)Losty Wrote: I was afraid of him pool, he was insane. His abuse slowly worsened over our marriage. It wasn't a sudden snap. I had already lost a late term pregnancy because of his abuse. I brought the situation up only to say that in Georgia they really push shared custody and for the most part I think that's a good thing. Usually, parents should share custody.

But why didn't you report him? Why didn't the hospital officials report him?

It is very common for victims of domestic abuse to stay quiet.

(June 2, 2016 at 10:03 pm)pool the great Wrote: Nobody actually gave him 50-50 custody, I doubt the exact words of the judge were that if the husband were there he'd have been given 50-50 custody, even if it were if the person Losty claimed to have stabbed her were present, she could've easily showed that he attempted murder and get the kid.
This didn't actually happen, guy didn't even show up. If he did, Losty showed he has attempted murder and the judge still gave 50-50 custody then all this enrage would make sense.
@Losty,  how many months pregnant were you when he stabbed you? Do you know why he did it? I hope he's serving jail time, he is isn't he?

It must be nice to be adolescent and know everything.

Fucking dolt.

(June 2, 2016 at 11:17 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote:

(June 2, 2016 at 11:12 pm)pool the great Wrote: But why didn't you report him? Why didn't the hospital officials report him?

It is very common for victims of domestic abuse to stay quiet.

We're talking about a deep wound that was caused by a stabbing on a 8 months pregnant woman by her husband. Shit should've been all over the news. She said there was a witness, why didn't the witness report this then? Or why didn't the hospital report this to the officials? Something as vile as this happens and it's as if it never happened?

(June 2, 2016 at 10:20 pm)Wyrd of Gawd Wrote:

(June 2, 2016 at 9:43 pm)Losty Wrote: One can only hope

The typical "I really hate the guy but I want all of his kids".

You couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a wallet full of c-notes and a fistfull of roofies ... you ain't fooling anyone.

(June 2, 2016 at 11:12 pm)pool the great Wrote:

(June 2, 2016 at 10:32 pm)Losty Wrote: I was afraid of him pool, he was insane. His abuse slowly worsened over our marriage. It wasn't a sudden snap. I had already lost a late term pregnancy because of his abuse. I brought the situation up only to say that in Georgia they really push shared custody and for the most part I think that's a good thing. Usually, parents should share custody.

But why didn't you report him? Why didn't the hospital officials report him?

You are just full of invasive questions. I don't understand how it is relevant to my point. I didn't go to a hospital. I went to Ray. His wife treated my wound (which wasn't deep, like I said) while he yelled at me for refusing to go to a hospital. Then I begged him to take me home before my husband got back (the guy who pulled him off me convinced him to go for a drive). I was terrified and probably a bit insane myself after having been through what I'd just been through. I told Ray how afraid I was and how angry my then husband would be if he got home and I wasn't there. I told Ray he just didn't understand and that it all happened because of me because I wasn't a good wife and I lacked faith and I begged him more to take me home. He promised he would in the morning but convinced me to let the kids sleep as they'd both fallen asleep. Then he held me on his couch the whole night and just laid there staring at the wall wishing I had died, knowing how much worse things would be in the morning because my then husband was going to be so angry. But at some point I fell asleep in Ray's lap and when I woke up we were all in their car and they were driving us to meet some people from the haven. My divorce didn't happen until much later as I spent a significant amount of time in hiding. A lot of crazy scary shit has happened since then, my exhusband's permanent residency was revoked and I am now living my life in peace. Should I have reported him? Probably. There's a lot of things I should have done back then. I spent long enough agonizing over it, hating myself for not being strong enough to leave sooner. I'm over that now. Shit happened. There's nothing I can do to change it. It was not the point of my post at all, but I hope you are now fully satisfied because I'm not answering any further questions.

(June 2, 2016 at 10:23 pm)Losty Wrote: It's taken me a few years to accept that there are no answers. I will never understand why he did the things he did. I will never understand why so many people made so many excuses for him for so many years. I don't have those answers.

((((Losty))))

(June 2, 2016 at 10:25 pm)The_Empress Wrote:

(June 2, 2016 at 10:20 pm)pool the great Wrote: Didn't the people at the hospital ask you what happened to you? Aren't they supposed to report cases like this to the police? Do you think there was some malpractice from their side?
I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm just looking for specifics,you shouldn't if you aren't comfortable,although I'd appreciate because I'd like to know how that dude get off the hook for something like this. I still don't understand why a man would stab his pregnant wife..was he mentally retarded or something?

Holy fuck, pool. Give it up. You are such a fucking dipshit. You're not even entertaining, and the smart stick must have missed you on the way out.

THINK FUCKING HARDER.

I am so not in the mood for this guy.

Fixed for emphasis.

@Losty, Wow that's fucked up. Even by my standards that's fucked up as hell.

@thump,
Pool - 2
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