Why not, I say. You get what you give.

(October 17, 2016 at 3:12 am)Kernel Sohcahtoa Wrote: it is a safe haven where people can gather and discuss their ideas and thoughts openly and without fear;

That may depend on one's perception. It's all relative.

(October 17, 2016 at 6:19 am)Irrational Wrote:

(October 17, 2016 at 3:12 am)Kernel Sohcahtoa Wrote: it is a safe haven where people can gather and discuss their ideas and thoughts openly and without fear;

That may depend on one's perception. It's all relative.

I will say, though, you are one really interesting member.

I seem to have lost a lot of anger in the time of my absence. Reading stuff I wrote back when is just...yikes.

So can I just say, to everybody whom it might concern, and I'm pretty sure they know who they are, that I apologize for being an asshole. I feel shitty about it.

(October 17, 2016 at 10:37 am)Vic Wrote: I seem to have lost a lot of anger in the time of my absence. Reading stuff I wrote back when is just...yikes.

So can I just say, to everybody whom it might concern, and I'm pretty sure they know who they are, that I apologize for being an asshole. I feel shitty about it.

Sometimes time away is all we need.  Many people have left for extended periods and come back.  It's healthy to refocus, re-calibrate and renew.

That's true too. Mostly I've healed more by now. So I can see people for who they are and not as an embodiment of my hurt and don't feel the need to take my issues out on them.

(October 17, 2016 at 10:50 am)Vic Wrote: That's true too. Mostly I've healed more by now. So I can see people for who they are and not as an embodiment of my hurt and don't feel the need to take my issues out on them.

That's called growth Vic

Happy to hear.  Taking people as they are is HUGE.

Thanks, King

(October 17, 2016 at 10:37 am)Vic Wrote: I seem to have lost a lot of anger in the time of my absence. Reading stuff I wrote back when is just...yikes.

So can I just say, to everybody whom it might concern, and I'm pretty sure they know who they are, that I apologize for being an asshole. I feel shitty about it.

I only saw quirky. I must be one of the unconcerned.

(October 16, 2016 at 8:46 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote:

(October 16, 2016 at 7:21 pm)Losty Wrote: Sure they get in my house sometimes too but then I swoosh them back out so the dogs won't eat them

Living out in the country, I get scads of 'em ... the light draw them from all over.

I wish I had a dog that'd eat the damned things.

You should get one they're awesome