thinking about it makes me gayer . . .

(November 11, 2017 at 10:04 am)wallym Wrote: I dont know, Man on man sex makes you a little gay.

Gay is as gay does. Otherwise it's not a real category anymore than "foot fetishist".

(November 11, 2017 at 10:04 am)wallym Wrote: I dont know, Man on man sex makes you a little gay.

No. Heterosexuals rape men and boys too. I don't really understand it, but according to the experts, rape is far more about power than sex. Sexual orientation is not about sexual acts, otherwise a gay man who chose to get married and have sex with his wife all his life would be considered straight. That's not how sexuality works.

Foot fetish is weird. There was a guy on the show True Life who had one. He liked to smell and suck on sweaty feet and toes after shoes and socks came off.

(November 11, 2017 at 1:51 pm)FFaith Wrote:

(November 11, 2017 at 10:04 am)wallym Wrote: I dont know, Man on man sex makes you a little gay.

No. Heterosexuals rape men and boys too. I don't really understand it, but according to the experts, rape is far more about power than sex. Sexual orientation is not about sexual acts, otherwise a gay man who chose to get married and have sex with his wife all his life would be considered straight. That's not how sexuality works.

I'm just being silly.  What pops into my head is Linda walking in to find her boyfriend Carl laying the wood to Joe.  Linda says "Oh my God, Carl, you're gay!?" and between thrusts Carl replies "Why would you think that?"

(November 11, 2017 at 1:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Foot fetish is weird. There was a guy on the show True Life who had one. He liked to smell and suck on sweaty feet and toes after shoes and socks came off.

IANMTU:

encountered a gay male in Milwaukee in the 70s, he was somewhat interested in me, but kept steering our conversation back to the kind of shoes my mom wore.

Sweaty feet are the best. Not weird at all

Different strokes for different folks. You would be surprised.

(November 11, 2017 at 1:46 am)FFaith Wrote:

(November 11, 2017 at 12:04 am)Shell B Wrote: That's ridiculous, imo. There are plenty of straight people who are rapists. I don't get pissed when people call them straight. That's like people of the same height getting mad if you mention a rapist's height. Saying a rapist is a pedophile isn't the same thing as saying all pedophiles are evil. Saying a rapist is gay is not the same thing as saying gay people are evil. That's just so silly. A person doesn't become not their sexuality when they commit a crime just because someone of the same sexuality might not like it.

Totally derailed at this point. I won't be upset if a mod either tells me to shut it or splits it.

If you're talking to a gay person and you tell them that only homosexuals commit rape in jail (you're saying man on man rape makes one a homosexual, right?), and that people of other orientations just don't commit rape in jail, I think they'd look at you like you were crazy. That's what I'm saying. Of course many gay people commit rape and there's nothing wrong with pointing that out. Having man on man sex does not make one gay though.

Hmmm, that seems like a moved goalpost to me, though your point may just not have been clear earlier.

Fucking someone of the same sex without being forced or being high/drunk as fuck makes you at least bisexual.

(November 11, 2017 at 10:01 pm)Cyberman Wrote: Different strokes for different folks. You would be surprised.

Do you like licking sweaty toes?