[meh. second thoughts]

(June 3, 2018 at 12:24 pm)Jörmungandr Wrote: [meh.  second thoughts]

Second thoughts always remember me of this popular scene:





Pour the wine

Still haven't seen that movie.

I think the worst part was saying her husband deserved better than her... worse than the cunt thing. That would hit a spot with me for sure, but maybe that's because I actually already feel like he deserves better than me lol.

(June 3, 2018 at 1:23 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think the worst part was saying her husband deserved better than her... worse than the cunt thing. That would hit a spot with me for sure, but maybe that's because I actually already feel like he deserves better than me lol.

Do you really? I am sure both of you are blessed to have each other!

(June 3, 2018 at 1:23 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think the worst part was saying her husband deserved better than her... worse than the cunt thing. That would hit a spot with me for sure, but maybe that's because I actually already feel like he deserves better than me lol.

Yeah, it's an anxiety I have, but that's between us. What Hammy says can't penetrate this marriage or how I or Tibs feels about it. That's not to say he should have gone so personal, but rather that I know he can't judge how I am with my husband based on how I am with him. It's absurd to think that my being "mean" to him means I'm anything like that with Tibs. Then again, I talk shit with Tibs all the time, and he seems fine with it. By all accounts, Tibs is perfectly happy with me. Who knows why? I've learned not to ask.

I'm sure your husband deserves you and you deserve him. Your insecurity is based entirely in something you can't control. You will overcome it eventually.

(June 3, 2018 at 1:25 pm)MysticKnight Wrote:

(June 3, 2018 at 1:23 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think the worst part was saying her husband deserved better than her... worse than the cunt thing. That would hit a spot with me for sure, but maybe that's because I actually already feel like he deserves better than me lol.

Do you really? I am sure both of you are blessed to have each other!

Weirdly, i like this. Blessed being two different people making a life together, It doesn't have to be about a deity. Heh, I am a monogamous atheist person that is married. She can be quite the pain in the arse and I married the devil incarnate. Well I love her.

I have had a personal front seat to Shell and Tibs and I can say that these two people are just wonderful. Towards each other and towards others. They aren't perfect, but then again - who the fuck is?

All I can do is vouch for the fact that Shell and Tibs have their shit together and have a wonderful relationship based on what I personally have seen. They are protective of each other and they love each other very much. That much is certain.

(June 3, 2018 at 1:35 pm)Shell B Wrote:

(June 3, 2018 at 1:23 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think the worst part was saying her husband deserved better than her... worse than the cunt thing. That would hit a spot with me for sure, but maybe that's because I actually already feel like he deserves better than me lol.

Yeah, it's an anxiety I have, but that's between us. What Hammy says can't penetrate this marriage or how I or Tibs feels about it. That's not to say he should have gone so personal, but rather that I know he can't judge how I am with my husband based on how I am with him. It's absurd to think that my being "mean" to him means I'm anything like that with Tibs. Then again, I talk shit with Tibs all the time, and he seems fine with it. By all accounts, Tibs is perfectly happy with me. Who knows why? I've learned not to ask.

I'm sure your husband deserves you and you deserve him. Your insecurity is based entirely in something you can't control. You will overcome it eventually.

I've said it a long time ago before if you remember, but Tibs is lucky to have you. Almost all Men would be lucky to have you.

I'm sure you are also lucky to have Tibs.

(June 3, 2018 at 1:38 pm)Joods Wrote: I have had a personal front seat to Shell and Tibs and I can say that these two people are just wonderful. Towards each other and towards others. They aren't perfect, but then again - who the fuck is?

All I can do is vouch for the fact that Shell and Tibs have their shit together and have a wonderful relationship based on what I personally have seen. They are protective of each other and they love each other very much. That much is certain.

Aw, thanks sweetie. We do love and protect each other. We know what we want in our lives and expect from each other. It makes for a pretty harmonious life.