(April 10, 2013 at 10:53 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote: I doubt it

I don't =]

(April 10, 2013 at 10:55 pm)Psykhronic Wrote: Becca - Males can and do have erections involuntarily.

Boners aside, I suspect female on male rape is exceedingly rare, if anything simply because men are so much larger and stronger than women. Men get raped by other men.

(April 10, 2013 at 10:55 pm)Psykhronic Wrote: Becca - Males can and do have erections involuntarily.

Yeah... I get that. Absolutely. I'm truly not trying to be insensitive. I'm just wondering, I guess, what is the likelihood of it happening in that kind of situation? Is it still arousal, or does it feel like something different?

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(April 10, 2013 at 11:04 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote:

(April 10, 2013 at 10:55 pm)Psykhronic Wrote: Becca - Males can and do have erections involuntarily.

Boners aside, I suspect female on male rape is exceedingly rare, if anything simply because men are so much larger and stronger than women. Men get raped by other men.

That's what I was thinking. Male-on-male rape seems like it would be much more common.

You were not coming off as insensitive, as for your other questions... I have no idea!

Females don't rape because no female wants to have sex with anyone ever.

(April 10, 2013 at 11:09 pm)Gilgamesh Wrote: Females don't rape because no female wants to have sex with anyone ever.

Yeah... I can see how that might be your experience.

(April 10, 2013 at 11:10 pm)rexbeccarox Wrote: Yeah... I can see how that might be your experience.

I'm gay.

(April 10, 2013 at 11:10 pm)Gilgamesh Wrote:

(April 10, 2013 at 11:10 pm)rexbeccarox Wrote: Yeah... I can see how that might be your experience.

I'm gay.

Oh, then you know female sexuality quite well.

I don't follow.

(April 10, 2013 at 11:04 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote:

(April 10, 2013 at 10:55 pm)Psykhronic Wrote: Becca - Males can and do have erections involuntarily.

Boners aside, I suspect female on male rape is exceedingly rare, if anything simply because men are so much larger and stronger than women. Men get raped by other men.

Especially in prison. Buuut. That's a different matter entirely.

That said, people make the mistake that because women are generally physically weaker that somehow it's not likely. In truth, most rapes occur in one of two ways if they are violent/aggressive: A group on one individual, or ambush tactics, such as striking someone from behind with a blunt weapon. It's not a straight-forward knock-down-drag-out brawl leading to some helpless person being subdued after an intense fight. It's usually very sudden, surprising, and out of nowhere.

Then there's the acquaintance rape. This generally is the most common rape. Two individuals are in an area where the aggressor has an advantage, such as the aggressor's car or home, oftentimes by them being alone and the aggressor having familiar knowledge of the environment.

And of course there's rape through intoxication, which Gilgamesh for some reason seems to think is what happened with the girl in Nova Scotia, but since he hasn't really provided any information for why he feels this way, I feel compelled to give it no real credibility. Rape through intoxication tends to be done through high levels of alcohol intoxication or through spiking a drink, reducing the state of the individual to a state to where they are too unaware of or unresponsive to outside stimuli. While considered the "least violent" form of rape, it's rape regardless if the victim did not want it. Restraining someone chemically is the same as restraining someone with duct tape or rope. It's just another method to the same ends.

Unsurprisingly, most female-on-male rape tends to be through intoxication. This is usually used for comedic purposes in media but in truth this can become quite ugly. However, gang-rape of men by women is not unheard of and is actually disturbingly common, and is the one I usually hear the most about at the DCRCC on the few occasions where men call in. For example, this. This is actually an amalgamation of both intoxication and gang rape.

As I've said before, having seen the common reaction to men claiming to have been raped, I frown upon the idea that the "sweeping majority" of rapes are committed by women. Neither gender is innocent, here, and while here may be a majority, I get a very dark feeling that it's not "sweeping" as has been suggested before, given what I've had to deal with.

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(April 10, 2013 at 11:07 pm)rexbeccarox Wrote: Yeah... I get that. Absolutely. I'm truly not trying to be insensitive. I'm just wondering, I guess, what is the likelihood of it happening in that kind of situation? Is it still arousal, or does it feel like something different?
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That's what I was thinking. Male-on-male rape seems like it would be much more common.

Oh don't worry, I didn't take it as being insensitive. If you want an answer from first-hand account, well....it's the same way how women can end up "getting wet" when they're being raped. It has nothing to do with enjoying it. The body just does what it's programmed to naturally do. It goes "ah, we're having sex?" Pleasure isn't an aspect of it, however. Stimulation is all it takes to get things working, for the most part. As for how it feels, well...it doesn't feel good, certainly. It's like how sex normally feels except there's a strong feeling of rejection. There's no orgasmic buildup. There's just a pervasive feeling of "I want this to stop, I'm not liking this." Problem is that adrenaline caused by the situation works against men in this situation, causing the pulse to quicken, and in turn feeding the erection, regardless of whether or not it's wanted.

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(April 10, 2013 at 11:14 pm)Gilgamesh Wrote: I don't follow.