(November 25, 2013 at 10:48 am)Kayenneh Wrote: I flirt a lot, but only because I'm in a relationship and don't feel the pressure of 'catching' someone. I have a couple of friends who have expressed a desire to have sex with me via flirting, but they know my limits and are well aware of the fact that I would never cheat on Scruffy. Flirting is harmless fun and a great ego boost, I think.

Apo,

That's dog is a dead ringer for my Beagle that passed away last year. He was an outrageous flirt as it happens.

I met more women with that dog than I can count. One 10 minute walk across Glyfada (where I live) took 2 hours when he was a puppy - and every woman I met was on her knees in front of me in an instant - that normally takes much longer.

If only I'd known when I was a teenager - I would have begged my father for a beagle rather than a car.

Dogs are awesome like that.

Shutter is the best wing-man ever. If we were looking for an open relationship or threesomes, he'd be the key.

I don't really know what flirting is, I guess it's joking around with the opposite sex.

I hate listening to predictable flirting
Things in work like a guy saying to a girl "Work faster you" then the girl saying "no you work faster mister bossy" or something like that makes me feel like I want to stab everyone in the building to death then splash around in the blood before turning the knife on myself.

I suppose I do flirt myself but I like to think my flirting isn't predictable but some of it admittedly probably is.

(November 25, 2013 at 12:10 pm)paulpablo Wrote: I don't really know what flirting is, I guess it's joking around with the opposite sex.

I hate listening to predictable flirting
Things in work like a guy saying to a girl "Work faster you" then the girl saying "no you work faster mister bossy" or something like that makes me feel like I want to stab everyone in the building to death then splash around in the blood before turning the knife on myself.

I suppose I do flirt myself but I like to think my flirting isn't predictable but some of it admittedly probably is.

Lol I laughed hard on this one.

(November 25, 2013 at 10:51 am)thesummerqueen Wrote: No one should ever feel flirting has to be about "catching someone."

Not picking on you in particular - I mentioned above that a lot of people are that way.

No offense taken
And I know! But it's hard, when I was single I always got nervous when flirting with possible mates. Now I know that I as a person am enough and that though I'm a bit *cough, cough* goofy, some people find me attractive. So if I ever need to flirt 'for real' again, I am slightly wiser. I think..

I just think flirting is such wonderful, harmless fun that people should feel it can be for an ego boost and mood leavening - not just as a tool of conquest.

(November 25, 2013 at 12:27 pm)thesummerqueen Wrote: I just think flirting is such wonderful, harmless fun that people should feel it can be for an ego boost and mood leavening - not just as a tool of conquest.

Problem is when you flirt with someone and they take it to heart. Next thing you know you are trying to get them to change their mind from jumping off a cliff.

Then you try to explain that it was just flirting and they threaten to never love again.

Then you just want them to throw themselves off the cliff.

Then they don't and proceed to stalk you. They appear to be at every gathering you're in.

Until someone else flirts with them.

Well, some people have fantasy prone and obsessive personalities. Therein lies the danger that makes flirting a sporting event. Put on a pith helmet, find a rifle, and GO.

Took a bit of time but here, hopefully for your viewing pleasure:



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