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RE: Sexual Shame
January 29, 2014 at 11:31 am
I absolutely HATE sexual shame.
The double standards in the country (especially by men) is fucking outrageous. How DARE someone call me a whore for having sex and enjoying it.
Who the hell is anyone to judge the sexual behavior of another?
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RE: Sexual Shame
January 29, 2014 at 11:49 am
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What No God said. I wasn't supposed to date anyone who wasn't a pastor back in the day. Well, I dated anyway. I wasn't supposed to have sex, so I didn't plan for it. I got preggers and had to say I was sorry to a church of 500 members on a stage with a mike. The pastor later told me that men didn't have to do this, because their sin wouldn't be as evident as mine due to being preggers. Piece of shit. I saw him three days ago. I imagined beating him up. Just imagined, but I walked away. Hehe. If only he knew it wasn't my first time and that my last before my boyfriend was a giiiiiiiirl. Fuck you very very very much.
Also, people in that church aren't allowed to masturbate. Of course, this probably increases masturbation rates and that's probably the intention of the pervy pastor. It's been 8 years and I still remember how nervous I was on that stage (altar)
Pointing around: "Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, you're cool, fuck you, I'm out!"
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RE: Sexual Shame
January 29, 2014 at 11:50 am
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Hmmm, it isn't the definition of the word that bothers me. Prostitutes don't bother me. Sex workers do not bother me. I support sex work.
It's the way the word is used. The simple fact someone is trying to hurt me emotionally because of the decisions I make in my sex-life. THEY put the negative connotation on the word "whore".
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RE: Sexual Shame
January 29, 2014 at 12:16 pm
Like the word "gay"... kinda?
You know what I mean.
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RE: Sexual Shame
January 29, 2014 at 12:33 pm
I'm probably different from most people, but I sure don't feel comfortable with my genitals and I sure as hell don't want to show them to everyone.
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