My Life Is Boring...

[ƵenKlassen]

My life is boring because I'm alone by myself most of the time and have no real life friends to talk to...

I guess I spend too much time on the internet and less outside, I don't know.

Tell me what you think....

[Catholic_Lady]

I'm sorry you feel this way.

Do you have a job or a hobby you like? If not, maybe try to find something. Friends will come easier that way too because then you'll have something that connects you to other people.

[SaStrike]

It's up to you, the ball is in your court to make changes (having lots of "real life" friends is overrated by the way)

[Minimalist]

Well you could get out of the house and go hang out with people your own age and....





Oh, fuck it.  That probably won't help.

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

Go. Outside. And. Talk. To. People.

Boru

[Catholic_Lady]

Zen, how old are you and what do you do?

[Brian37]

My life is boring because I'm alone by myself most of the time and have no real life friends to talk to...

I guess I spend too much time on the internet and less outside, I don't know.

To me what you think....

Why is being alone so "boring" to you? I am 51, I live by myself, I get lots of entertainment on my TV and on my computer. If someone sold you the idea that you had to climb mountains or jet ski or have to get rich or know famous people, that is just bullshit.

If you don't like spending that much time on the internet, then that is you, and that is also OK, try doing other things. But, even if you go outside of your own house  and spend time with others, in person, you can also feel just as lonely. "Bored" isn't about where you physically are, or how many people you are with, it is a state of mind.

If you need a change, and that is what you are suggesting, GREAT, then try something new. But being with more people or less people isn't the issue, but what you want for yourself.

Ask yourself what you want, then seek it. But it isn't about more people or less people in person. It is about you.

[Whateverist]

Have you found God?

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Yeah, J/K.

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[brewer]

So you're a dentist?

[Brian37]

One of my FAVORITE things to do is dance for my cat. He just sits there and looks at me like I am totally fucked in the head. When you can enjoy that simple look on your cat's face then anything else you want to do is fun too. Point being, be you, don't measure yourself by what others think you should do. Just be you, the rest follows.