The Newly Departed thread: announcements (departures)

[Mystic]

If anyone was going to take some of you to the light, it was Catholic_Lady, but now you stuck with me trying to knock sense to you guys blue butt Rafiki style way to Simba!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71_p8P_PVXo

[Joods]

Then you are definitely in the wrong line of work. Perhaps something where you aren't allowed around other people would be better. The public would be grateful, I'm sure.

Oh, now we're mixing the two worlds?  

You see, I've never been one to be precisely online as I am in real life.  After all, the point of being online is to be free to express one's self in a way that cannot be expressed in real life.

No, I'm not mixing the two worlds. I'm just calling it as you would like for everyone to see it. For pages now, and threads, even, you have given every impression and insisted with your words, that "this is who I am and I'm not changing for anybody" and on and on ad nauseum. I'm just pointing out that your own words and your own actions dictate that you should not be in a line of work where compassion and empathy are required. Why? 

Because, by your own admission and in not this exact terminology: You Lack Those Things Called Empathy and Compassion. 
You've made it perfectly clear that you don't give one flying fuck about the feelings of others. So, why should we expect that behavior to be different elsewhere? 

Sure, you might not be as extreme with your views in the real world as you are online and that at least on the interwebs, you can be a "little more you", but don't get it wrong - people bring some amount of their real life persona, into their online persona. And if they are an asshole in real life, you can bet that they are even more so here because they don't have to tone it down and they have zero fucks to give online. Their spines just stand a bit taller online is all. 

How you see me here, is how I am in real life. My posts here would be the same as if I was looking at you and telling this to your face. I don't sugar coat shit because at the end of the day, it's still shit. I prefer honesty. Lying gets you nowhere. Ask my kids how I feel about lying. They will tell you it is the fastest way to piss me off.

[Silver]

[Joods]

Didn't expect you to. Pieces of shit usually can't admit when they are wrong.

[Silver]

I'm wrong, but on my own terms.

[Joods]

Well good for you.

[mlmooney89]

Catholic_Lady, I think my mom would agree with me that motherhood is overrated

I doubt you meant that to be but it was very distasteful. To say the one thing someone wants more than anything is overrated is wrong.

Also everyone I am so sorry. I started all of this because I couldn't keep my mouth shut about one thing Kit said. I blew this up and others weighed in until it was ugly. I thought I was defending CL and it turned into this horrible conversation against her. I should know better than to comment on Kit's inhumane ways.

For anyone that thinks she was "whining" just know she isn't the only one. I haven't gone through half the shit she has and I created a blog to vent through. This was taken straight from it back in April 2017. You will notice very similar ways of thinking that can't be helped.

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Last month my period was two weeks late but I had one. I’ve gone months without a period at all. It’s not abnormal that my period is missing after three weeks. It doesn’t mean I’m pregnant.

But I want it to mean that.

I want to think that it could mean that and I want to go get a test. I know we are going to have ups and downs in this trial and error ordeal but I would rather minimize the downs by being realistic. Ya know one of my co-workers told me that I just need to stop thinking about it and it will happen. Said that she told another friend that and after a few years of trying and then going on vacation she got pregnant.

Bitch this isn’t your mind over matter shit. It’s been six years, doctor intervention is needed.

Ok that was mean, she was just trying to be supportive and I simply smile and nod in agreement. Two coworkers (one at the hotel and one at the bank) just had babies. I try and be supportive and happy. Another one just got married and is talking about trying to conceive. I’ve always been one to get jealous easily and I start playing the This Isn’t Fair Game. I can’t help it, I’ve become resentful of people with children, I know it’s petty and mean and unnecessary. Even if we don’t have a baby we will adopt. We will have kids to love and a family one day. Yet I can’t help the thoughts. Why do people that don’t deserve kids accidently get knocked up? Because I’m one to judge on who gets kids right? I feel like a horrible person when I get like this and sitting here nauseous and resentful I still don’t know if it is worth the mental pain to take the test.

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Motherhood is something literally engrained into most women's DNA. It what nature intended for us and when you feel like you failed at something so fucking basic meth heads do it without trying you feel really fucking bad about it. I am truly sorry for starting all this and letting my own emotions fuel it. CL if you are still reading this please know I never meant this to happen, you are often in my thoughts, and I only spoke up because I feel so much for you.

[Mystic]

Sorry the way I meant it, is not do downgrade it or the pain, it was just to say there is some benefits in not being a mother. As you see the rest of my post, hints, it's a severe hardship but to just focus on the positive.

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Catholic_Lady, I think my mom would agree with me that motherhood is overrated

Anyways, I am glad you have a sense of peace now because you know what's going on.

Remember God's favors on you and whatever bad comes your way, the hardship will ease itself out eventually.

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The 7th successor per Shiite beliefs, he was jailed and tortured, but would thank God for having more time to worship him then before as he would have duties to teach and mobilize people outside of jail.

Continue to be the positive person you always been and will be, you got this!

Just in case, someone missed it.

I talked about 7th Successor in jail looking at the positive side, now to downgrade that he suffered and was tortured in jail, just to emphasize the human spirit has to remain positive.

[Joods]

Catholic_Lady, I think my mom would agree with me that motherhood is overrated

I doubt you meant that to be but it was very distasteful. To say the one thing someone wants more than anything is overrated is wrong.

Also everyone I am so sorry. I started all of this because I couldn't keep my mouth shut about one thing Kit said. I blew this up and others weighed in until it was ugly. I thought I was defending CL and it turned into this horrible conversation against her. I should know better than to comment on Kit's inhumane ways.

For anyone that thinks she was "whining" just know she isn't the only one. I haven't gone through half the shit she has and I created a blog to vent through. This was taken straight from it back in April 2017. You will notice very similar ways of thinking that can't be helped.

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Last month my period was two weeks late but I had one. I’ve gone months without a period at all. It’s not abnormal that my period is missing after three weeks. It doesn’t mean I’m pregnant.

But I want it to mean that.

I want to think that it could mean that and I want to go get a test. I know we are going to have ups and downs in this trial and error ordeal but I would rather minimize the downs by being realistic. Ya know one of my co-workers told me that I just need to stop thinking about it and it will happen. Said that she told another friend that and after a few years of trying and then going on vacation she got pregnant.

Bitch this isn’t your mind over matter shit. It’s been six years, doctor intervention is needed.

Ok that was mean, she was just trying to be supportive and I simply smile and nod in agreement. Two coworkers (one at the hotel and one at the bank) just had babies. I try and be supportive and happy. Another one just got married and is talking about trying to conceive. I’ve always been one to get jealous easily and I start playing the This Isn’t Fair Game. I can’t help it, I’ve become resentful of people with children, I know it’s petty and mean and unnecessary. Even if we don’t have a baby we will adopt. We will have kids to love and a family one day. Yet I can’t help the thoughts. Why do people that don’t deserve kids accidently get knocked up? Because I’m one to judge on who gets kids right? I feel like a horrible person when I get like this and sitting here nauseous and resentful I still don’t know if it is worth the mental pain to take the test.

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Motherhood is something literally engrained into most women's DNA. It what nature intended for us and when you feel like you failed at something so fucking basic meth heads do it without trying you feel really fucking bad about it. I am truly sorry for starting all this and letting my own emotions fuel it. CL if you are still reading this please know I never meant this to happen, you are often in my thoughts, and I only spoke up because I feel so much for you.

God Mandy, that was so touching. I want to hug you right now. You are not to blame here. You didn't write anything hateful. What started this was the hateful things that were said. 

Love you girl. I'm sure that was tough to share. It was tough to read because I felt it so much. I don't have any other words. 

[DodosAreDead]

Umm... So.
When's AF gonna go back to normal?
No seriously, in the few months I've been here this is the first Big Atheist Forums Flare Up.
What usually happens? Do you all go back to being BFFs or does the ignore button come out in full force and completely change the dynamics. Much anticipation. Ciao.