Can anyone relate?

[*Deidre*]

Is this a ruse for you to preach to me about Jesus, father discipulus?

Don't worry Deidre, I am just asking this question to see what your response is.

If you are uncomfortable with answering it then I will understand.

How would it make me feel? I've had guys from relationships who wouldn't let go, and some potential suitors I guess.

It made me feel uncomfortable.

[discipulus]

I am happy to see that several have engaged and for the most part have said the same thing i.e "Block the person on Facebook", get a restraining order, etc. etc.

And it may be true that some like the attention, but what I am speaking of is someone day in and day out expressing their love for you to the point where it is a distraction and it interferes with your life and what you are trying to do. So most would say that if indeed it got to this that it would be at the least, quite annoying.

[Phatt Matt s]

Don't worry Deidre, I am just asking this question to see what your response is.

If you are uncomfortable with answering it then I will understand.

How would it make me feel? I've had guys from relationships who wouldn't let go, and some potential suitors I guess.

It made me feel uncomfortable.

Now there's a big surprise!

[discipulus]

Don't worry Deidre, I am just asking this question to see what your response is.

If you are uncomfortable with answering it then I will understand.

How would it make me feel? I've had guys from relationships who wouldn't let go, and some potential suitors I guess.

It made me feel uncomfortable.

That is right. In fact, most everybody here would I agree. I would agree as well. I have actually experienced it too.

Uncomfortable, annoying, intrusive, and similar descriptors could all be used to describe such behavior.

[*Deidre*]

Why did you create a thread with my name and put it in the Christian section?

[Phatt Matt s]

Why did you create a thread with my name and put it in the Christian section?

Because you are the bride of Christ, daughter of the most high God, Temple of Solomon, garden enclosed, fountain sealed, and the purest of lilies.

[discipulus]

For those that have been in the situation and can relate, we can attest to how creative we can be when trying to avoid an annoying, intrusive would-be suitor.

Some change their number, some refrain from going to certain places that they know the would-be suitor would frequent.

Some have even had to move residences or get restraining orders.

Some make up lies to tell the would-be suitor in order to try and make the would-be suitor repulsed and go away.

And of course there are numerous others.

In fact, the easiest thing to do would be just to ignore the person. That really requires the least effort.

[*Deidre*]

Why did you create a thread with my name and put it in the Christian section?

Because you are the bride of Christ, daughter of the most high God, Temple of Solomon, garden enclosed, fountain sealed, and the purest of lilies.

I knew I should have stayed in bed today. lol

[The Valkyrie]

Yes Facebook counts.

And indeed, you too sound like you can relate.

Suppose one of these stalkers of yours kept on bothering you and pestering you even after you made it clear that you were not interested in them, how would you feel?

Block the guy , how hard could it be ?

Precisely.

[discipulus]

Why did you create a thread with my name and put it in the Christian section?

I wanted to ask you the question and I did not want to PM you. I apologize if I offended you in any way.

I now know it is against forum rules to do that.