(March 20, 2014 at 9:27 pm)fr0d0 Wrote: What you feel is perfect for you. Don't think anyone else is handling it any better than you, because they aren't. Coming to terms with it, and forming a sensible attitude takes time and some luck. You're amazing. Don't let anyone tell you or make you feel any different.Thank you. I often remind myself to stop comparing myself to others or my situation to theirs because we all do things different and it is OK.
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This empty feeling
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  Quote:but what do I do? Remind yourself that they are deluding themselves. 
Death and suffering is more bearable for those who attach meaning to it
 (March 20, 2014 at 9:27 pm)fr0d0 Wrote: What you feel is perfect for you. Don't think anyone else is handling it any better than you, because they aren't. Coming to terms with it, and forming a sensible attitude takes time and some luck. You're amazing. Don't let anyone tell you or make you feel any different. That was beautiful. You surprise me 
(March 21, 2014 at 9:09 am)Thunder Cunt Wrote: Death and suffering is more bearable for those who attach meaning to it http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Junko_Furuta I'm sure she was very happy it was part of gods plan. 
Dealing with death is hard for anyone regardless of having a religion or not. Just having left religion myself recently I can't speak to how well I will deal with death when it presents itself, but the best advice I can give is on the same lines as everyone else. Just give yourself some time. Grieving is a process so don't expect it to get better overnight. Sometimes it may even feel like your taking steps backwards in the process, but don't loose hope. You're dealing with it just like anyone else would have to deal with it so don't beat yourself up.
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Your memory of your friend? You're the only person in the world to remember that person that way. It's like being entrusted with a piece of someone's soul, and you're the only one who gets to carry that particular piece with you. I don't know if you find that comforting or not, but it's something.
I'm not anti-Christian. I'm anti-stupid.
(March 21, 2014 at 1:50 pm)tor Wrote:(March 21, 2014 at 9:09 am)Thunder Cunt Wrote: Death and suffering is more bearable for those who attach meaning to it I'm blaming satan |
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