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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 12:30 pm
(August 16, 2016 at 10:42 am)mh.brewer Wrote: OK, so you blame them for your, or a part of your current state. I have no idea what you consider they have done and what you consider them responsible for so this may be a little off.
Should they be punished, or punished more than they have been? If they show you sufficient remorse/regret will this help you? Are there any amends they could make that would allow you to move forward?
I know that holding on to a resentment (whether justified or not) has rarely helped me. Just fuel for the fire.
Or, you can tell me I don't know shit about you and to fuck off.
They've been punished enough by having to watch me go through my struggles. If they showed remorse, that would be nice, but I've already moved forward. I forgave them a long time ago, even though I do still harbor a little bit of resentment, but I think given what I've been through, it's a healthy amount of resentment. Things are great between us, and I even take my family over to their house on a weekly basis.
What you read of my earlier post was mainly me venting a bit.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 2:04 pm
CIJS
She's going to pee on him and I'm going to laugh my ass off.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 2:28 pm
I love having the house to myself, older kids out, little kids in bed watching telly, and the Mrs at work. 
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 2:35 pm
Can I just say...
This is the first Ivy thread ever to hit more than 50 pages even with my last account. Thank you guys for sharing such personal, sometimes touching, other times funny, maybe enraging parts of your lives. Fuck the online friendship stereotypes. I'm so cozy here. Please, keep sharing. 
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 2:36 pm
(August 16, 2016 at 2:28 pm)Expired Wrote: I love having the house to myself, older kids out, little kids in bed watching telly, and the Mrs at work.
... wishing I had someone to share the house with ...
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 2:46 pm
I'm sorry i'm such an annoyance. I wish i wasn't but annoying just is who i am :c
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 2:50 pm
(August 16, 2016 at 2:36 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: (August 16, 2016 at 2:28 pm)Expired Wrote: I love having the house to myself, older kids out, little kids in bed watching telly, and the Mrs at work.
... wishing I had someone to share the house with ...
Awwww mate.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 3:22 pm
Well, she didn't pee on him. Matter of fact, none of them did. CIJS that I'm slightly disappointed by that?
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 3:30 pm
(August 16, 2016 at 2:46 pm)Jello Wrote: I'm sorry i'm such an annoyance. I wish i wasn't but annoying just is who i am :c
You're too adorable to be annoying. If anyone is annoyed, let me at em! (Throws fist around)
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
August 16, 2016 at 3:34 pm
(August 16, 2016 at 2:46 pm)Jello Wrote: I'm sorry i'm such an annoyance. I wish i wasn't but annoying just is who i am :c
Okay, who's legs do I have to break?
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